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tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Teslet is at the bowels of chaos. So I'm getting as much coursework as done as possible. Also the usual cleaning, grocery shopping, paperwork.

My bro that lived with me for awhile after D-day and then moved away for the last year has decided to move back! He's showing up with a U-haul tonight to store his stuff in my garage and then we'll go check out some apartments for him. So excited to have family moving back to the area!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4542 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Sewing and cooking - two of my favorite things!


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6059 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, February 28th (Friday)

NOT WORKING! Yay!

The rest is merely details.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Moving from couch to bed and back again. Day 4 of the flu. We're into the green goo stage. *joy*

Netflix, how I love thee.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 6:14 PM, February 28th (Friday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17123 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Dobegirl
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Got my grocery shopping out of the way tonight. Tomorrow, work...ugh yet another 60 hours week. Not complaining though. After work, meeting a dear friend for lunch and cocktails. I haven't seen or talked to her in a year. She always hated the jackass

Hmmm Sunday?? Maybe Netflix House of Cards all day or texture my walls in my puppies room.


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
Ring

Posts: 147 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Continue cleaning out garage and two bedrooms. Painting DD16 bedroom this weekend. Other than that, couch, wine, TV


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1227 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Working. Cleaning. More likely just trying to convince myself to clean.

I do have an hour long massage scheduled for when DD is with STBX for the afternoon on Sunday.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 485 | Registered: Nov 2013
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Pampered chef party tomorrow.

Looking forward to a foot of snow on Sunday into Monday, so I'll probably stick close to home.

I may make a 3 day weekend out of it.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7417 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, February 28th (Friday)

I'm drinking a WHOLE FUCKING bottle of Merlot and updating my resume. I still have my job but I am increasingly feeling the need to find another one.

Posts: 1557 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Ummm...h0peless, no writing resumes under the influence of merlot...

just sayin'


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4542 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, February 28th (Friday)

I can always fix it tomorrow after I take my Advil. Should be interesting.

Posts: 1557 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
5454real
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Tesla, he might be applying at a winery.

Me, shoveling the 6-10 inches of snow in sub zero temps. I'm waaaaay past merlot!!!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2541 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Venturing out to visit DD15 tomorrow, but otherwise staying home and focusing on killing one albatross after the other from my "to do" list. And cursing the newest round of snow.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24393 | Registered: Aug 2011
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Finally, I'm relaxing more than running around!

Tonight, dropped the kids off, then had dinner and conversation with my GF. Off to veg and watch Hannibal in a few.

Tomorrow, having breakfast with my brother, and then I might do a little shopping. I also plan on finally starting Stephen King's Doctor Sleep, which I've been wanting to read for ages. I just finished a massive pile of correcting today, so I'm not correcting this weekend!

Sunday is grocery shopping and then my niece's baptism. Then, the kiddos return.

Have a lovely weekend, all.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
movingforward13
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Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Moving!!!

DC and my new beginnings, here I come!


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 636 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, February 28th (Friday)

I am celebrating the last, tie-up-loose-ends of this damn Statistics class... It ends Monday, Looks like I'm coming out of it with a final grade around 85-ish... SNOOPY HAPPY DANCE... Five classes left that are GRAVY for me compared to this one, and I will have my MBA.... happy sigh...

Tomorrow I am taking sister, niece and nephew fishing, gonna be SOOO much fun!

Sunday I have plans to meet co-workers for bowling. Haven't done it in years, hopefully won't fling myself down the lane, but looking forward to it!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 424 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
kg201
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Back in the house with my kids for the coming week today.
Conservatory lessons with the boys in the morning. Despicable Me and a fire this evening.
Taking the two younger kiddos to cook for a friend with 8 month old twins.
Filling out financiAl docs for the lawyers.
Figuring out whether to file separately or jointly for the last time.
Fixing my laptop.
Surviving infidelity.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 581 | Registered: Aug 2013
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Doing taxes for myself and two DDs....joy, joy (not)...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 959 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Leaving at 6:30am to visit Baby Hudson (DS & DDIL also ) for a week.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19787 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, February 28th (Friday)

More demo and reno at my sister's place tomorrow and then I think I might try to take Sunday off from EVERYTHING. I don't know how successful I will be but I am going to try.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1674 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, March 1st (Saturday)

I'm doing 'me'.

It's been busy here for me lately; so this weekend is a freebie. Kids are at dad's and I'm just sorta taking it easy. I love knowing I do not have to set alarm for 5am and I do not have to be in car driving anywhere at 7am for 2 days.



Posts: 14320 | Registered: Jun 2008
Gomphus
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, March 1st (Saturday)

Friday night sleepover. 4 girls in the house. Ballet runs all Saturday morning and hang out with my youngest. Picking music with a buddy and his kids will socialize with mine this afternoon at my house. Lazy Sunday, maybe some clothes shopping with the kids. It's almost flip flop season (apparently).

Me? Working on the child support amendment procedures. Going to juvenile court to reopen my case as I just got a new job and salary change.

Reading a the Lorax for Dr. Suess's birthday celebration to 22 2nd graders Monday.


me - 41 BH
D'ed
Surviving

Posts: 425 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: VA
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, March 1st (Saturday)

My DD23 came home for the weekend, so I am hanging out at my house at her beck and call.

Supposed to do her taxes sometime.

Wore myself out last Saturday with a 5K and then partying until 3:30 AM in Nashville on Saturday night/Sunday morning.

Been gone almost all week for work, so I am also catching up with my beloved herd of three dogs.

Will ride my bike a bit this afternoon, watch basketball and golf on TV, and maybe pick up a few pine cones in the back yard.

No plans tomorrow except Church, Wal Mart, and Assisted Living place with my herd - all weather permitting.


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 726 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, March 1st (Saturday)

Last night my coworker won an Excellence Award so I went to that to support him.

This morning, I got a great long trail run in with a good friend, then breakfast, short nap, and now I'm cleaning my house. Promising first date later this evening.

Tomorrow, I should get a run in, but none of my friends are running, so I'm not sure if I'm motivated enough to go alone. May be rowing and yoga instead. And visiting with a friend who really needs me right now. Possibly shoveling if the company I hired to do that (yet again) doesn't show.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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