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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, February 28th (Friday)

I already hold an Advanced Open Water SCUBA certification. Got it before marriage. XPOS was not into any water activities so that meant my personal goal of getting my Divemaster certification was put on the back burner. Always resented that. But that is gonna change as I have made the decision to aggressively pursue that goal! DD17 and I are leaving for the Turks and Caicos Islands next week for my "post divorce independence celebration" and I have been working with a dive shop there to jam in as many certifications toward my Divemaster as I can while there. I have gone from lounging on the beach and watching the world go by to round the clock dive action. And I am totally PSYCHED about it!! One of my personal goals is back in sight again now that ex-anchor has been cut loose! Whoop!!! Excited doesn't begin to describe me

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 9:29 PM, February 28th (Friday)]


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1191 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
PhoenixRising88
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Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, February 28th (Friday)

you GOOOOO GIRL!!!! Proud of ya!!!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 429 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Turks and Caicos are so beautiful; some of my best diving ever. Enjoy and GOOOOO GIRRRLLLL!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, February 28th (Friday)

Enjoy!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25744 | Registered: Aug 2011
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 12:46 AM, March 1st (Saturday)

Fantastic!

Enjoy your independence holiday.


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 752 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
mixedemotions
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Member # 35810
Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, March 3rd (Monday)

Amazing! Way to go for YOUR bliss! Emphasis on your, you independent woman you!


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
GotPlayed
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Member # 41294
Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, March 12th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!!!"Post divorce independence celebration"?

They have those???

Totally doing that! Great idea!

There will probably be *some* cash distributed after stuff is sold. And I worked so hard I''m tapped on vacation days!

Vacation for one, coming up!


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 755 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
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