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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Today would have been his mother's 59th birthday. We lost her almost 5 years ago to a very aggressive form of cancer.

Our DD's middle name is her name, and it's a wonderful little reminder that she is always with us.

Still, days like today we ache at the loss more than usual.

Please keep Crazz in your thoughts tonight. I hope that as he closes his eyes he can remember her hugs and her laughter and get to "spend" a moment with her.

"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Prayers sent. Peace to you and yours tonight.

BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

I don't pray, but I'm sending hugs and positive thoughts your way.

((( Crazz and family )))

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Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

(((Crazz and family)))

We lost FIL almost nine years ago, now. Today, we were talking about some business stuff and we both burst into tears. It never leaves you, but the times of intense grief become farther apart.

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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

warm thoughts and comfort sent for the whole Razzie family.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:30 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

Thanks everyone.

"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Default  Posted: 5:28 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

Sending along my prayers


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Default  Posted: 5:31 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

(((Razz family)))

Sending loving thoughts your way.

Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."

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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

She left you so young
Hugs to the whole family.

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

Sending love and comfort to all of you.

“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

(((Crazz and family))))

May good memories of happy times bring peace to you today.

Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

(((Crazz and family)))

Peaceful thoughts to you.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, March 6th (Thursday)


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, March 6th (Thursday)


Thinking of you today, man. Hang in there.

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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

Sending my prayers and good thoughts.

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, March 6th (Thursday)


Sending strength and good thoughts.

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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, March 6th (Thursday)

(((Crazz and family)))

peace to you both today.

Far too young to lose a mom, I am sorry.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

I will give a thought for CRAZZ as I remember my own Mum who passed away this day, 2003.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm,, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

Good Thoughts for the whole Razz family!!!

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

Thanks friends. Prayers and good thoughts for your mum too, lynn.

"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

My thoughts to you both on this hard day. I always do a little something for my spouse on the anniversary of his father's passing, so I feel ya.

Him WH
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

((((Razz family)))) Loads of love and comfort heading your way.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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