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DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

So, i asked ws why he decided in about the last 4 weeks to go NC with oc/ow. He said the biggest reason is that last time he went to see OC, OW (after about 15 min) grabbed oc out of his hands and put her down for a nap. Then said "i need to talk to you, i cant stand not being able to be 'friends'" He said he couldnt help her with that and left. He said it pisses him off and just confirms that she had this baby just to try to keep him around. She doesnt care for them to build a relationship, that its still about her. I was wondering why the last time he went to see OC he was only gone about 45 min. Takes about 15 to get there.....He also said that the only way it will ever work is when the paperwork is done legally! I was excited for him to finally realize that!!

Patience!! Persistance!!




Posts: 265 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, March 7th (Friday)

That''s a wonderful realization and revelation from him!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4549 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
annb
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, March 7th (Friday)

I'm glad he sees what OW is all about...trying to gain control of his life.

I know your situation must be extremely difficult, but kudos to him for walking away from her.


Posts: 7389 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, March 7th (Friday)

Im very thankful! I cant believe I ever tried to be civil with this woman. I know its not over. I know shes got more shit planned to try and mix up his emotions but I know him. Hes headed in the right direction!




Posts: 265 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, March 7th (Friday)

He sounds like he's got his head on straight. United front, you two, one she will try to bust up but can't if he keeps going in the right direction. Happy for you. He gets it and btw, ow is a real bitch. I hate ppl that use kids for selfish reasons.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4696 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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