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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

I'm sick of being stuck here. I decided to light a fire under my own ass. I turned in my notice at work. My little brother is getting married here on May 17th. He once threw a rotisserie chicken at his blushing bride to be so there's no way I'm missing the wedding.
But after that I'm gone. I'm spinning my wheels here and I hate it. I'm taking a leap of faith. The clock started today. It's time.
The condo is probably a bust. So is the job transfer. Screw it. I built a heck of a life here before STBX burned it down. I can do it again. This time with a tan.

[This message edited by sunsetslost at 6:56 PM, March 6th (Thursday)]


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 693 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
traicionada
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Cool  Posted: 7:08 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

Wear some shades...Everyone looks cool with sunglasses


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, March 6th (Thursday)

You're making it happen, sunsets! Kick some ass and take names while you're at it. Sending you new beginning mojo.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24440 | Registered: Aug 2011
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, March 7th (Friday)

Go sunsets!!


Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 670 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

Not easy, Sunsets. Tough decisions.

New beginnings have nothing attached.

An obvious statement but one that's easy to forget.

I'm discovering that people who physically move away from where the sh hit the fan do better over time and the slate is cleaner to go on with.

There are condos ever where if you like them and apartments can be okay...lot less to do and some come with pools. Best of luck.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Leia
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Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

Take the leap, and don't forget the sunscreen! Really, a rotisserie chicken and she's still marrying him? That sounds like one hell of a good story to tell. Best of luck!


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, March 10th (Monday)

Good Luck!

Leap and the net will appear!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8407 | Registered: Apr 2008
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, March 10th (Monday)

Good for you! You are only stuck if you think you are, and now you know you aren't.

Will there be good sunsets where you are heading? Maybe you'll reclaim some!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3013 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 11th (Tuesday)


Oh, I think I'll find a few......


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Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 693 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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