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Monster62
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, March 7th (Friday)

Last night my BW told me I should come on the upcoming family vacation we had planned months ago. I didn't think that was even possible. When I said we should have a conversation about the logistics of it , she mentioned I would stay in a spare room. Hell, I would stay on the roof if it meant I could be there with her and my family!

I am trying not to focus on my hopes and stay focused on her healing. She said this is absolutely what she wants for her.


Me: WS 51
Her: BS 48
DD#1: Oct 2013
DD#2: March 2014
2 children: DS 16, DD 7

Posts: 27 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, March 7th (Friday)

Monster62 - I am trying not to focus on my hopes and stay focused on her healing. She said this is absolutely what she wants for her.

I hope this family vacation is the first of many shared activities that will serve as healing for you and your BW. And while you do need to be realistic about what this really means in terms of R and you need to be "in the moment" with your BW, I still feel that having some faith and hope is important.

Hope you have a happy holiday.

HUFI

If you have lost hope, hold onto faith. When faith deserts you, hold onto sheer stubbornness and pigheadedness - HUFI.


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3251 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Jovie
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Member # 41956
Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, March 7th (Friday)

That's fantastic! I hope the time away together gives you a chance to show your remorse and resolve to your family.


Me - WW, 33
Him - BH, 37
Dday - 12/16/13

Posts: 214 | Registered: Jan 2014
CantLoseHope
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Member # 42356
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, March 7th (Friday)

Congratulations Monster, that is great news! HAVE FUN!


"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"


Posts: 172 | Registered: Feb 2014
mrs7
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Member # 42505
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, March 9th (Sunday)

Happy for you -

those little slivers of hope are what keeps ya going. Hope you & your family have an awesome time together.


Me -WW - 49
Him -BH -45
DD - 1-21-14
no children together
M - 3 1/2 years, together 7

Posts: 46 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: CO
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