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Ivyivy
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, March 7th (Friday)

So I am planning a vacation for April and am trying to decide what to do about WH. We are in limbo but still living together in the house with the kids. We did the vacation as a family in November (after Dday) and it was fine. But if anything, our interactions have been deteriorating since then. I am considering: (1)either just going away with the kids for a week; or (2) asking him if he wants to come (not sure what his response will be). Anyone have any advice or experience to share on how to handle this.


Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
DS - 11 and DD - 15

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, March 7th (Friday)

Do you want him to come? Or would you prefer he stayed home?


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4088 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Ivyivy
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Member # 42110
Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, March 7th (Friday)

I am not sure. There are pros and cons to both sides of this. I know that doesn't help. At this point I am kind of in a holding pattern in this and in everything else and will probably book a vacation last minute just so that I do not have to plan what I am going to do.


Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
DS - 11 and DD - 15

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast
Undefinabl3
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Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, March 7th (Friday)

Do you honestly think that your Vacation will be enhanced by his presence??

If you are not for him going, then i would suggest not taking him.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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