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Allornothing
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Member # 42354
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

I had always suspected that that was the case, but boy, did she really prove it yesterday!
This woman is my next door neighbour, and she has a habit of going bat-shit crazy and yelling when she sees me. I never acknowledge her, and I think that makes it worse, but I really don't care!

Yesterday, Mr AON and I were walking to our car, and the yelling started. We just looked at each other and rolled our eyes, not saying a word. This must have really pissed her off, because she stormed up to the fence, and started yelling at the top of her voice "You two think you're perfect? You think you can make each other happy? You're a f!@king idiot! Anybody who gets disrespected and cheated on, and stays, is weak! Weak and f!@king pathetic! Get some self respect! Anyone who stays with a cheater is a f!@king loser!"

As we were driving away, we noticed that she was still standing at the fence fuming, and her BP was on their front verandah looking like he had been punched in the gut. Poor sod!

We couldn't help but laugh at all of the horrible names she called her BP!


Me- BS 43
Him- FWH 43
Married 19 years, Together 26
Kids- 23,21,15,14
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 190 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
MrsDoubtfire
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Member # 24786
Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

Unless the OW BP knew he's an innocent in this too. I can understand laughing at OW's stupid attitude but what a poor guy.... To have heard that from his partner.


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1583 | Registered: Jul 2009
Tearsoflove
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Member # 8271
Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

Yep. She's dumb. I wonder if her BP is processing everything she said and packing his stuff right now...


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 4149 | Registered: Sep 2005
jpumpkin
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Member # 42148
Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

Wow, that poor BP. She really is crazy, perhaps delusional? I just can't imagine how he must have felt listening to her say those things. Maybe he'll wake up to see she isn't remorseful, leave and then she won't be able to afford to stay put and will have to move too. Wouldn't that be nice?

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jan 2014
Allornothing
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Member # 42354
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

MrsDoubtfire, I think I sounded a bit harsh towards AP's BP.

He is generally a very nice man, and I do feel sorry for the hurt he has suffered. He has chosen to stay with his partner, and I give him credit for it, it's hard, and weak is the last word I would use when talking about any betrayed spouse.

When I said that we laughed about all the names AP called her betrayed spouse, we were re-affirming to each other that nothing she says has any bearing on us; she does not exist. We were not laughing at her BP, and never would. I'm sorry I wasn't clear.


Me- BS 43
Him- FWH 43
Married 19 years, Together 26
Kids- 23,21,15,14
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 190 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Topic Posts: 5