We went out tonight and drove by a place they had their first and probably only date. He doesn't normally take his eyes off the road for long periods of time, but when we passed this place I noticed a long glance from him at that building. I didn't say anything and neither did he. We ate and went home and it wasn't brought up, he didn't act strange, but I know it must've been a trigger for him. I asked him a couple of months ago how often he thinks about her, I hope the answer has changed since, but I know he thought of her tonight, and it breaks my heart because he was out with me.Me - GF (38)
Him - BF (33)
DDay - 08/13
Together 8 Years
Posts: 133 | Registered: Jan 2014
nekorb Member Member # 40306
Posted: 6:31 AM, March 10th (Monday)
That must be so hurtful. I'm sorry.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
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