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She11ybeanz
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DOH!  Posted: 9:31 PM, March 13th (Thursday)

Got an email from a 22 year old tonight....he is absolutely adorable....and I could totally eat him up....but alas....I can't go there. I'm a 34 year old single mom....and I don't think he can handle ALL THAT.... as much as I wouldn't mind hopping off the bus and taking that cutie pie for a test drive.....I will restrain myself and buckle up.... Someone please add ankle restraints please.

And, thank you.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, March 13th (Thursday)

BTDT. Nothing to write home about.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5576 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Leia
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Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, March 13th (Thursday)

What an ego boost! Nope 22's can't handle it....when we had our company there was a 23 year old that worked for us. He was pretty good looking, but got on my nerves most of the time. Never wanted to take that one for a test drive!!!


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, March 14th (Friday)

Shelly.....

Maybe he's just hunting cougars. That's what I tell myself.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
soulsearcher4
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Member # 29540
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, March 14th (Friday)

As a 22 year old lad, I dated a 33 year old woman.

It lasted 6 months. Turns out I wanted more than she did.

No kids though. That certainly changes the picture slightly.


Me: BS
Her: WS

Divorced.

Remarried to a supremely wonderful person!


Posts: 172 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: So.Cal.
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, March 14th (Friday)

i was 39 and dated a 28 year old for while. he was great and very hard to let go but he wanted way more than I did at that point. i wasn't ready to settle down after my X. i sure didn't want to have kids and play domestic goddess again. Great guy, bad timing. right now ... maybe not but don't write off the younger ones entirely. I do tend to feel that +/- 5 years was my real dating comfort level but I was willing to venture outside that a couple of times and don't regret it


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8452 | Registered: Apr 2008
whyohwhyohwhy
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Member # 17890
Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, March 14th (Friday)

OK...
I just have to share this message I got from a 22 year old guy this week......

Santa made you a toy for Christmas but dropped it at the wrong place.. Would you like to come get your boy toy?

Oh dear........ needless to say, I didn't respond....


what did I ever do to deserve this?

Me:47 BS
Him: X, 51 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD14, DD8 divorced


Posts: 1042 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: east coast
kg201
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Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, March 14th (Friday)

Look...there are some days you just need to go out for a test drive with no intention of buying. If you are in a place where a date and some 22 year old booty won't cause you any emotional turmoil, then go for it. I've always said if it wasn't for older women, we males would never learn anything. Teach that boy!


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

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