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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, March 15th (Saturday)

So I show my bad ass self up at the stable for the riding lesson and they didn't show. I confirmed yesterday that Teslet had a lesson. Spoke to his instructor this morning and watched another lesson...good stable.
But ex-shat was a no call no show.
And here I got myself all talked into having to give the guy credit for doing something right.
Phew. Close call.


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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, March 15th (Saturday)

So I assume Teslet understood he had the lesson this morning? Exshat is certainly consistent.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, March 15th (Saturday)

Why am I NOT surprised? Poor teslet. What a disappointment for him.


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haysuth01
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, March 15th (Saturday)

Wait, so did Teslet not get his lesson??

ETA: Ha, nevermind.

[This message edited by haysuth01 at 11:40 AM, March 15th (Saturday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, March 15th (Saturday)

What an asshole.


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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

You were that close --><-- to giving him credit!! At least you know it was a good stable.


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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Good grief.

So, he'll take Teslet another time and not tell you in advance, I assume?


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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

What a fucking lower muppet. This shit is so fucking unnecessary.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Get this...brother calls up...says you are not going to believe what stripper whore posted on her FB...

Apparently she was feeling stupid and annoyed because she had gone through all the trouble of signing Teslet up for riding lessons...every kid's dream, right? But she couldn't get ex-shat out of bed or Teslet off the 'stupid' Xbox.

Shit. I almost feel sorry for her.
And what the fuck does she mean she can't get Teslet off the Xbox...unplug the damn thing and put it away. That will get him off it.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Since you talked to the instructor, I'll assume you're sure he didn't reschedule it? Wouldn't surprise me. Maybe stripperwhore was complaining about you being there during pony time.


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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

It's sad when a 4yo (right?) child can pwn you...


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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Welcome to reality, Stripper-Whore.

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Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Poor Teslet.


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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Giddy up, StripperWhore. Reality just got real. Poor kitten... Nobody will listen to her!


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Holly-Isis, you have added a new word to my vocabulary! (Thank god for urban dictionary )
Teslet is 5...but yeah, pwned.


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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Wow. This is crazy on so many levels. First of all, that he can even afford to give Teslet riding lessons. Isn't he financially devastated at the moment?

It sounds like Teslet wasn't too disappointed about missing the lesson though. It also figures that nobody bothered to tell you that they weren't going.


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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Wow. This is crazy on so many levels. First of all, that he can even afford to give Teslet riding lessons. Isn't he financially devastated at the moment?

It sounds like Teslet wasn't too disappointed about missing the lesson though. It also figures that nobody bothered to tell you that they weren't going.


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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Tesla you should have taken the lesson since you were there and all.

BTW--imo as an experienced riding instructor 5 is just too young unless teslet is totally horse crazy for riding lessons. They can do it but it seems like the combination of physical size and natural short attention spans at that age means they've got about 20 minutes of good time on a horse at that age. The horse crazy ones are a little different.


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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Is stripperwmhore cruising for a new daddy on FB to save her from her husband? Price-less!!

Nobody thought to let you know? Will you ask them about it or ignore? I'd ignore personally and accept I'll either have to show up like this time and time again or stop going to events arranged by the circus.

I can't believe she is posting this shut on FB. If either of them had half a brain cell I'd wonder if this shit is on purpose.

I have to say I don't like it that you're getting info from her FB. Yes it helps you monitor and gives you info but IMHO it also keeps you plugged into them. Not my business, I know but NC is NC and it works.


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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Oh I would be all over stripperho FB. Tesla needs to know what kind of shit they're going to be getting into next.

She's also far enough out that I think she has sufficient distance to just marvel at the stupidity of these fucknuts.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

Yeah, sometimes I feel overly plugged in but at the same time it allows me to ignore instead of texting the asshole asking if everything is ok. My assumption- if I did not have that FB info would have been that they had been in an accident or something bad had happened which prevented them from getting to the lesson. KYIM? In some ways her FB page holds my codependent tendencies in check...but it comes at a bit of price.

The shit she posts...oy.
I wish she would post that the fucker had a job. That's the one I'm really waiting for.


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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, March 15th (Saturday)

You have to share your child with her. I think any little window into that is understandable and necessary.


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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

I'm actually not surprised that he didn't follow through. It's predictable with him.

I'm assuming that he is participating in some sort of recreational drug/alcohol use which is causing him to not be able to be woken up the next morning.

If that's the case, which I'm pretty sure it is, if stripper-whore weren't there, teslet would be wandering around by himself, completely unsupervised while dad of the year sleeps it off.

Not that I'm glad she's there, but can you imagine if she weren't?


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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, March 16th (Sunday)

Actually getting started young is a wonderful thing! I was showing at 2! My mother was a crazy person though, lol, and was still showing herself 8 months pregnant with me so that's no surprise that it was in my blood. I rode professionally into my 20's and for a short time, with the coach of the Olympic riding team. Anywho...he's not too young if it is an interest of his, as was mentioned. If this is just because stripper whore is living vicariously... well, she is exposing him to a wonderful sport that develops discipline, empathy and care for animals which is wonderful, so no real harm done there. Shame he "missed" the lesson though... he may really have enjoyed it. It's an expensive, but very rewarding sport.

The bit about the Xbox though... seriously... not surprised Teslet has figured out how to outsmart her! Didn't take long!


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, March 16th (Sunday)

He didn't seem too crushed that he missed it. He's not really into horses...more so into legos, minecraft, and building 'contraptions'. Although I think once he was actually there that he might be interested.
Teslet said they were taking him next time.
At any rate, I'm satisfied that the stable and instructors understand how to work with little kids and it would be good for him to learn how to behave and treat ponies and horses.

Ex-shat sent him out the garage door and not the front door. Am I that horrible that he can't even face me? Sheesh.

Still 5 more weeks until the court hearing...


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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, March 16th (Sunday)

They were hoping the stables would present YOU with the bill!

Sheesh can't believe how truly dumb they are. She probably outsmarts him, but then that isn't say much.

Tesla you are doing great, even dealing with the cray-crays.


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