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Sparkle0504
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Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

Veronique12's post on a luuurve letter she found, where the OW called the WS a "sex god" made me think about how my SAWH described himself on hook-up site ads: "hands to die for", "a wicked tongue" and "just think of me as the Duracell bunny lolol". Lucky me, it's all true, but reading it there made me sick, literally.

Those of you whose WS' used those sites - how did they describe themselves and how true to life were those descriptions?


Me 44 (BS)
Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
Children - two, mine from my previous marriage
Final straw 6/6/14

You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think (A A Milne)


Posts: 190 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
DragonBunker
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Member # 42551
Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

He described himself like this.

"Tall, dark, handsome, single guy looking for some NSA fun, mff threesomes cool, seriously into oral, bondage, role play, for pic exchange email me at.....blahblah"

Tall, check.
Dark, hmm. Mousy, I guess. Unless he's talking about his soul. Then yes, as dark as can be.
Handsome, meh.
Single, nope!
NSA fun, huh? It's all fun and games until your BS finds out!!
Mff threesomes cool- yeah. In your dreams. Life isn't porn. These things don't just fall into your lap.
Seriously into oral, check
Bondage, check- creepily so.
Role play, yeah. I remember. You played the entitled, lazy cheating asshole and I played the devoted mother and housewife. Good times.
For pic exchange, check. That was definitely true, I saw them.


Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.

Posts: 58 | Registered: Feb 2014
Sparkle0504
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Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

Lol! I forgot that bit - always put himself as "divorced". That's a very likely possibility...

Oh and the profile pics - lookalikes but never of him.

Fantasy land


Me 44 (BS)
Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
Children - two, mine from my previous marriage
Final straw 6/6/14

You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think (A A Milne)


Posts: 190 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
luvedmypbear
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Member # 25690
Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

Mine referred to himself as "sextoy" followed by the year of his birth.
He checked the box "not so happily married" and was looking for secret fun and adventurous sex.
We had been married for 5 months at the time.
I found the account years later.
So sad......
Would have happily walked away from him then had I known he was unhappy.
I was busy financially supporting the family and pregnant with our first child.


D-Day July 14, 2009
3 kids (B7, G6, B2)
BW, 37
D and healing, one day at a time

Posts: 1033 | Registered: Sep 2009
Sparkle0504
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Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

Just read your story (((luvedmypbear))). Wow


Me 44 (BS)
Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
Children - two, mine from my previous marriage
Final straw 6/6/14

You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think (A A Milne)


Posts: 190 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
luvedmypbear
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Member # 25690
Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, March 16th (Sunday)

Thank you Sparkle
You are very kind
Hugs to you too


D-Day July 14, 2009
3 kids (B7, G6, B2)
BW, 37
D and healing, one day at a time

Posts: 1033 | Registered: Sep 2009
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