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MadeOfScars
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Cool  Posted: 6:05 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Yes, the Ice Cube song has been playing in my head all day too.

I don't know why, but I just woke up feeling good, and I decided I wouldn't second guess it. It was a good day at work. I got my new corporate card earlier this week, so I got to take a couple of my top performers out to a really good extended lunch. Got all my work done early and, for once on a Friday, there were no last second "hey, that thing I didn't mention all week is super important and needs to be done today" calls or emails.

I get to see a good friend this evening. Him and his wife have a 6 month old daughter that I haven't had enough time to spoil properly, and apparently "she misses her uncle SoulHurts." Got a few toys for her of course. The louder, the better.

My friend seems a little too excited for me to drop by. I hope this isn't a "set up," but even if it is, so be it. I don't think the STBXWW herself can ruin my mood today. I know tomorrow could be a whole 'nother story, so yeah, I'm just gonna ride this high out. For everyone on a low today, I promise it will get better.

Today I didn't even have to use my A.K.
I got to say it was a good day


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

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4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, March 28th (Friday)

I'm happy for you soulhurts! Congrats! My brother and his wife just had a baby 5 months ago, and there's literally nothing better than spoiling the crap out of her! It's great therapy just to get to spend time with her! I hope your good days continue!!!


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, March 28th (Friday)

You will begin to have more and more good days!

So glad you are feeling a sense of normalcy today!


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JaneDeaux
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Hooray!


We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. Kenji Miyazawa

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, March 28th (Friday)

I'm glad you're having an awesome day. Have fun visiting with your friends.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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Ivyivy
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Good for you. Thanks for sharing your good mood with us. I hope that we will all have more of these types of days than the other kind.


Me -BW
Him - WH
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DS - 11 and DD - 15

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, March 28th (Friday)

No barking from the dogs?

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LeftOutintheCold
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, March 28th (Friday)

It's great to hear you've had a good day!! Sometimes your outlook totally affects your entire day. I'm glad you were able to keep the mood from the moment you woke up!!


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Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together over 10
Status - still separated

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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Yay for good days!


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, March 28th (Friday)

No barking from the dogs?

no smog
And momma cooked a breakfast with no hog

Thanks everyone. I promise there are good days, and you should enjoy the hell out of them.

Seeing my friends and their daughter was pretty awesome. That little girl adores me, and I her! The only low point of the evening was his wife almost breaking down. This woman was my STBXWW's maid of honor, and she hers. They were very, very close. My STBXWW has cut her out of her life too. The damage my STBXWW left in her wake effects far more than me.

Anyway, I gotta say, all-in-all, today was a good day!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

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beautytoashes5
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Cool  Posted: 11:38 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Drove to the pad and hit the showers
Didn't even get no static from the cowards
Cause just yesterday them fools tried to blast me....

^^^^^^^
Good song SoulHurts...


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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, March 29th (Saturday)

\m/


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

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Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, March 29th (Saturday)

Your post made me smile SoulHurts.

Onward and upward my friend

I love that song!


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BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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norabird
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, March 29th (Saturday)


Sit. Feast on your life.

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HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, March 29th (Saturday)

Keep on keeping on SoulHurts.

You got this.

Glad to hear you had a good day


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"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


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