SurvivingInfidelity.com Forums
General
User Topic: Way to go Doucheweasel!
CheaterMagnet
Member
Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, April 5th (Saturday)

Today is DD's 23 birthday. She wanted to spend a family day at the beach and then she, WH and I have reservations at Ruths Chris. Simple, right?

Well no. WH decides this morning to fix our leaky kitchen faucet. It's been leaking for about 9 months. But suddenly today is the day.

So, as with most projects in an old house, everything goes wrong. Things break, parts don't fit etc. DD and her friend arrive to go to the beach. WH is swearing a blue streak at the faucet.

WH's truck is the only vehicle we have that will make it to the beach so we can't go without him.

DD sits for awhile, but it's now almost 2pm. Reservations are at 6 and the restaurant is an hour away. WH has to go to the hardware store again.

DD tells me me we can just do this another time. She is clearly disappointed. She and her friend leave. It is clear that all the shine is off of her special day.

Over a fucking sink that has been leaking forever. Nice way to show DD where she is on your priority list.

Way to go asshole. Way to go.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, April 5th (Saturday)

I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT!!!!!!!!!

Happy Birthday to your daughter! I think y'all should clean up, get a cab or limo, and go out without Mr. Doucheweasel Pottymouth.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
zebra25
Member
Member # 29431
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, April 5th (Saturday)

What an awful thing to do. Selfish ass.

Hugs to you and your daughter.


Me-BS 40's
Him-WH 40's
D-day April 2010
Married-20+yrs

Posts: 690 | Registered: Aug 2010
CheaterMagnet
Member
Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, April 5th (Saturday)

It's awful! He's literally throwing a fit. I'm sure the neighbors all think he's calling me all of those names. The dogs are curled up together under my chair and the cat is nowhere to be found.

I am sure that part of this is his frustration over our situation. Its the most emotion and passion he's shown since his dog passed away 18 mos. ago.

I'm sitting here having flashbacks to Pigfucker. The worst part is that I'm trapped here. I loaned my car to my daughters BFF so she could get to work.

This sucks.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, April 6th (Sunday)

This pisses me off and brings forth memories of the same type of behavior. So many things my wa sucked the joy out of. I'm sorry your DD day got ruined. You guys should plan something awesome and not invite Ahole


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5066 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Gr8Lady
Member
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 6th (Sunday)

It is their dysfunctional way of sabotaging situations. They thrive on excuses and drama.

What an ass, you DD deserves better. Leave him home and go. He can sulk all he wants!


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 615 | Registered: Jul 2012
Gr8Lady
Member
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, April 6th (Sunday)

Why can't you drive his truck? I'm confused.


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 615 | Registered: Jul 2012
CheaterMagnet
Member
Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, April 6th (Sunday)

He needed his truck to go back and forth to the hardware store. DDs car is too low to drive to our beach (it bottoms out on the rough dirt road). She was just so let down she and her friend left. We are going to go next weekend.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
twitching
Member
Member # 42399
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, April 6th (Sunday)

Created a drama then got upset when it became dramatic? Sounds familiar.


"My heart was broken and my head was just barely inhabitable. " - Anne Lamont

Posts: 128 | Registered: Feb 2014
Topic Posts: 9