User Topic: Not going to do anything....
Member # 38173
Wink  Posted: 12:58 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I care, but Iím not going to do anything about it. I love him, but again, not going to do anything about it. AND it feels good to not do anything. Iím married on paper, but I am going to enjoy being single. Being single does not mean Iím alone though. I rather enjoy the company of myself. Iím pretty awesome.

"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

Awesome Nikki! I'm going to try to borrow some of this attitude for myself

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Faithful w/Love
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

Love it Girl!
Enjoy it and have a blast. The most fun I had was being alone in my apartment when we were separated on the weekends and just watching and cooking what I wanted. I was not ever truly lonely.
And every Sat if he was not with me (False R) he would call "Can I come over for coffee".

BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

Posts: 2780 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Topic Posts: 4