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User Topic: Another reward
renee21
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Member # 27088
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I've been looking for another job, I'm on notice with my current employer, will have a severance package. I had the perfect job lined up, enough of an increase where I could make it 100% on my own without worrying about fucktard paying support.

They loved me, were going to hire me and got the call today, no dice because of my credit. I bet you can guess where my credit issues came from. Just another reward I get for being his wife and trusting him to do the right thing. I don't want to rely on him for shit, he already made me late on rent this month because he didn't have the support money. I will never trust my finances combined with someone else again.

I'm so depressed.


BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
justinpaintoday
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Member # 42858
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I am so sorry


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
kiki1
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Member # 37184
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

(((Renee21)))

Posts: 571 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

(((renee)))

Posts: 35393 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sadmumma
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Member # 42192
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

((renee))


On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

((((renee)))) Do they know that your credit was impacted by divorce? I'm so sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25508 | Registered: Aug 2011
Leia
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Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to find a job. Do you have D paperwork you can show them? Again, that really sucks.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
SBB
Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

They won't consider the circumstances?

My god that sucks. We don't have the credit issue here thank god.

I'm so sorry.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5576 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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