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User Topic: Another reward
renee21
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Member # 27088
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I've been looking for another job, I'm on notice with my current employer, will have a severance package. I had the perfect job lined up, enough of an increase where I could make it 100% on my own without worrying about fucktard paying support.

They loved me, were going to hire me and got the call today, no dice because of my credit. I bet you can guess where my credit issues came from. Just another reward I get for being his wife and trusting him to do the right thing. I don't want to rely on him for shit, he already made me late on rent this month because he didn't have the support money. I will never trust my finances combined with someone else again.

I'm so depressed.


BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
justinpaintoday
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Member # 42858
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I am so sorry


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
kiki1
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Member # 37184
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

(((Renee21)))

Posts: 639 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

(((renee)))

Posts: 36058 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sadmumma
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Member # 42192
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

((renee))


On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

((((renee)))) Do they know that your credit was impacted by divorce? I'm so sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25850 | Registered: Aug 2011
Leia
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Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to find a job. Do you have D paperwork you can show them? Again, that really sucks.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
SBB
Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, April 9th (Wednesday)

They won't consider the circumstances?

My god that sucks. We don't have the credit issue here thank god.

I'm so sorry.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5619 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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