I am coming up on 3 years since Dday.
He moved out about 2 1/2 years ago.
I still get mail addressed to him.
I told him that he had until the end of April to change the address and after that it would be sent back return to sender.
Felt great to do that.
My IC applaluded.
Then I get registered mail at my house addressed to his parents. They have not lived at my house for over 2 years. I just happened to be home sick and in the delirium I signed for the letters. Turns out it was their passports.
I held on to them until DA had the balls to ask about them.
I told him he could no longer use my address for his parents. They have an address (just a recent development) or they could use his address or even his mother's half brother. Why does he continue to use my address for his parents?
His only response was: "I didn't think it was a big deal."
I told him to cease and desist.
Last night I get a text that he needs my help for something.
Holy shit, you have to be kidding me!
Originally before Dday, his condo was purchased under my name so that his parents could live there. I signed a quit claim deed after he moved in there to remove myself from the property. Unfortunately, there was a utility bill that was in my name and somehow his AOL account is still in my name with his address. He is still with AOL and has had to change his modem twice in the 2 years he has lived there.
They sent him the new modem through FedEX with, you guessed it, my name and his address. He can't pick up the package.
He wanted me to send a picture of my driver's licence. But it has MY address not his.
I told him that it's been almost 3 years and I'm tired of this. Get it straightened out. Get my name off stuff. I'm not helping him anymore.
I asked him when do I get to move on from all of this? I don't involve him with my business so why does he assume I am waiting to help him out whenever?
I asked him "when was the last time I asked you for a favour?"
He couldn't answer because I don't and never will.
I think he is finally getting the idea that I am not here to help him or bail him out of these situations that are his own fault for being lazy and procrastinating (It's not a big deal) and assuming I will just help him out.
I didn't hear from him for a while and sent a text saying, "I guess you got the package without my help or signature then?"
He sends back: "Does it matter?"
Nope it really doesn't.