User Topic: to my peeps who swear and curse
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

My "truck driver mouth" is part of what SO thinks is awesome about me. :)

However... The doosh has a disgusting vocabulary and we all know he is a fucking bitch ass liar....

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 8:22 PM, April 10th (Thursday)]

divorced the Dooosh
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

son of a bitch who knew?

BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2985 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

Get the fuck out! So when I tell people I don't give a flying fuck or a rat's ass, or they are full of shit, need to be bitch slapped, and need to take a bath with a fucking hair dryer I am being more honest?? Shhhiiitttt....

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet

Posts: 1189 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

That shit is fuckin' badass!

Posts: 1734 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

I feel more "genuine" since I discovered this "other language." Thankfully, I have a pretty good filter and self control given that I work with teens!!

I am aware that a meme is far from scientifically validated truth, but I decided to accept this at face value!!!

Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Member # 30853
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

Fucking A!

I come from a long line of honest, trustworthy people. When I was a kid, my mother's favorite angry response was "god damned son of a bitch and bastard"! For years, I thought it was just one big long word.

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

Posts: 2840 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

It is my new hobby!

My favorite is...

crossed arms, double bird while saying "cross fucker"

I think I made that one up!

"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie


Posts: 1421 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

I am glad to hear this news. My ex hates my potty mouth, which I got from my pure as Christmas snow mother.

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller

Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

No way! Shut the fuck up!

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

Just more proof that when I say that my xWH is a "low class white trash motherfucking asshole who deserves to be taken out back and shot" I''m right!

"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Sad in AZ
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

Well, fuck me 9 ways till Sunday!

(Just kidding; I already knew this shit )

I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20284 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 41268
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

I only swear on anonymous internet boards as I can't in real life for professional reasons.

Posts: 109 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: AL
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, April 10th (Thursday)


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

So, when I call my STBX a lying, cheating c*** stuffer .. I am being totally honest ... already knew that!! lol

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

El es un hijo de rechingada madre, pinche culo, cabron baboso, putisimo!
Hey, it just sounds better in Spanish!
Gosh, I never used to cuss so much.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2334 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, April 11th (Friday)

I only swear on anonymous internet boards as I can''t in real life for professional reasons.

This. But also much, much, swearing in my head since dday

Although I can''t say it out loud, I''m not sure that "manipulative fucker" is actually swearing...when it''s the truth

[This message edited by Softcentre at 2:06 AM, April 11th, 2014 (Friday)]

Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1052 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, April 11th (Friday)

Heh, heh.

True in my case. My sack of shit, jive ass, lazy-eyed tranny fucking XH, not so much.

Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 764 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, April 11th (Friday)

My ex hated my "potty mouth".

As my BFF says, "That Fucker."

I felt really bad that, for the first time, I dropped the "f-bomb" around my kids last week. Stress….too much stress…

We just talk about it, that those words are out there and we try not to use them.

me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings

Posts: 4185 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, April 11th (Friday)

DA said to me once (only once)...
"you never used to be so vulgar."

No shit Sherlock was my response.

BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1420 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
solus sto
Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, April 11th (Friday)

Well, fuck, yeah.

BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8841 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, April 11th (Friday)

So fucking true!

me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."

Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 36809
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, April 11th (Friday)

There is not better word than FUCK! There is no substitute.

[This message edited by GreatRoleModel at 8:11 AM, April 11th, 2014 (Friday)]

BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!

Posts: 361 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: NC
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, April 11th (Friday)

I tell people that I lost my filter in the divorce.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

Posts: 25726 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, April 11th (Friday)

Thank goodness you didn't berate us. My potty mouth has grown exponentially since this fucking infidelity bullshit started..


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2316 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Member # 36869
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, April 11th (Friday)

My late H (the WS) tossed the F bomb around with gleeful abandon, which I had never heard in my life, even while working with Navy personnel for many years (and those guys do tend to swear, btw.) So, I started to say "fuck", which only escalated during his first, and especially his second affair. He once had the extreme gall to tell me that the 2nd OW never used "that" kind of language, to which I replied, "Well, if she was married to YOU, she sure as fuck would!"

Be careful what you wish for the most - you may get it.

Posts: 396 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: VA
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