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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Old job has been resigned.

New job has been accepted.

Notice has been given on old house.

Lease is being drawn up for new house.

Flight for SO to come out has been booked.

Moving truck has been reserved.

Boxes are being scavenged.

It's really happening... we're moving out of state! I'm and at the same time.

Ack!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15412 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

YAYYYY!!! Congrats, WB. Totally understand the and You will do great!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2380 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Excited for you!!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7823 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

(And . We will miss you so much. I'll wait until you have the A/C installed to come visit. )


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17784 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Sooooo exciting!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4180 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Woot!!!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7761 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
little turtle
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Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

I'm so happy for you!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Nice!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21068 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Must Survive
Member
Member # 34533
Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

So excited for you and the bunch! New experiences are exciting, fun and scary. I envy you.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

So excited for you and the bunch!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25694 | Registered: Aug 2011
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

Yippeeeee!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3207 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, April 17th (Thursday)

I'm so glad you're excited about the move; I was when I did it--twice!

You are going to be fabulous, and I'm so excited for you!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20273 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, April 17th (Thursday)

Yay!! Congratulations!! I hope you and the banana bunch have a great new beginning.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, April 17th (Thursday)

Oh please. Can we all just lay off the mushfest and say what really needs to be said. WB is abandoning the NorCal Group. I don’t care about all this “it’s a great opportunity/it’s a more stable job/there is a better future with the new company/it’s better for the bunch/the neighborhood is better and safer/the schools are better/the cost of living is cheaper/blah, blah, blah” bovine fecal matter. WB is abandoning us simply for selfish reasons. She paid no consideration to our feelings or needs, it’s all about making a better future for her and the bunch.

“We will miss you so much.”
No way, no how. I am not gunna miss all the touch-feely crap I have to put up with when the Bananas try to invade my personal space. I am not gunna miss the youngest Banana eating the last three pieces of the chocolate pie. I am not gunna miss blatant demands for more Crack. I am not gunna miss the bunch tryin’ to take away from my time when I am properly corrupting the littlest Razz or young Master Silver. Be gone with y’all. We need new blood in the NorCal group and our little collection of misfits will be even better once we have jettisoned the dead weight of the whole lot of you.

We are now accepting applications for new members of the NorCal Group. Potential applicants only need swear a blood oath to not ABANDON us.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, April 17th (Thursday)

WOOOOT!!! I am so happy for you twinnie!!!


BS-40
Red Headed Imps 10 & 8
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09

Posts: 2290 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Greater Seattle Area
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, April 17th (Thursday)

Wahhhhmbulance dispatched to Jpapa's.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17784 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, April 17th (Thursday)

I heart you, Razzie.

And j, I'll miss you too. You big lunk.

Thanks all! Sent off the deposit money today!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15412 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
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