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Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, April 18th (Friday)

Another first date tonight.
Pros:
I was not assaulted.
He did not use a coupon.

Cons:
He was a 49 year old party boy. Seriously, dude -grow up.
He left me at the end of the date in a part of town that I was not familiar with AT ALL with the oh-so-charming line of "you can find your car, right?". Right in the middle of the street.

Fucking jagoff.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 10:11 PM, April 18th (Friday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, April 18th (Friday)

Jesus cheeeriiiist.
What the hell happened to common courtesy?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4732 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, April 18th (Friday)


Pros:
I was not assaulted.
He did not use a coupon.
Cons:
He was a 49 year old party boy. Seriously, dude -grow up.
He left me at the end of the date in a part of town that I was not familiar with AT ALL with the oh-so-charming line of "you can find your car, right?". Right in the middle of the street.

Fucking jagoff.

I just spit tea all over my keyboard. You can't make this stuff up. I am so sorry this happened to you......again


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2770 | Registered: Jan 2010
Sadmumma
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Member # 42192
Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

Hmm horse turned out to be an ass

At least your getting out there


On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:15 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

Chivalry isn't dead. Unfortunately most arseholes aren't either.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5651 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

You carry a taser, right?!

What did you say???


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4215 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

I was confused, I said uh, sure. And he just walked away. Whatever.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

What the actual fuck?

((((Williesmom))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26119 | Registered: Aug 2011
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

What a gem. At least he showed you right off that bat so you don't waste any more time.

What a dick.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3628 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, April 19th (Saturday)

oh my goodness.

Reminds me of one of my favorite bumper stickers: "Don't be a dick"


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3235 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 5:39 AM, April 21st (Monday)

At least he showed you right off that bat so you don't waste any more time.
Yup. Consider it a gift that he didn't at least pretend to be a decent human being so you get sucked in and then have to start the "what does that mean?" "How does he really feel about me?" stuff.

Sorry for the lousy date, but GOOD FOR YOU! for getting back on the horse and putting yourself back out there again!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15386 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, April 21st (Monday)

What a jerk.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4223 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
getnbtr1
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Member # 40540
Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, April 21st (Monday)

He took the guess work right out that one!!!

Posts: 99 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, April 21st (Monday)

(((((((Williesmom))))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
mixedemotions
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Member # 35810
Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

Wow! Williesmom, I can't wait for you to find your prince

And NIK?

What the actual fuck?


Hahahahaha!


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
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