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Klove
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Member # 42096
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

I'm the girl who knows nothing about finances and prefers to avoid thinking about it and sticks her head in the sand...

Untilllll... This week! I...
1) filled out my statement of expenses for L. That was an eye opener.
2) hired a divorce financial analyst.
3) contacted a realtor to appraise the house.
4) booked my kids into therapy. Noticed some dusturbing behaviour lately from ds5.

Look at me! I'm a grown up!


"But stand still is all I did
Love like ours is never fixed
Still I stuck around
I did behave
I saved you every time
I was a fool for love
I was a fool for love"

Posts: 294 | Registered: Jan 2014
Gemini71
Member
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

Yay for Klove! You can handle this. It's amazing how much easier it gets when you don't have a man/child to take care of.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
NoLongerWantHim
Member
Member # 19934
Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

WTG!!!!

Im proud of you too


Me & the kids are having the malignancy removed.

If I went to Hogwarts, my Patronus would be my Big Sister - GWADW


Posts: 4123 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Where I want to be, on the road to the future
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

Woo hoo! Go, you!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25382 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

That's wonderful! But you know what? This is just the beginning. Soon you will be soaring!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9684 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
freeatlast72
Member
Member # 42758
Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

You go girl!!! So proud of you!


BS:41 (me)
WH: 41
Kids: DD6
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
Separated as of 01/16/2014,now divorcing...WH did not want to reconcile.

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.


Posts: 135 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: North Carolina
yestopants
Member
Member # 41631
Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

YAY! Keep it up.... remember the credit card commercial.... I think the last words of that should be

finding out KLOVE is awesome....priceless.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 282 | Registered: Dec 2013
deena
Member
Member # 27275
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, April 19th (Saturday)

WOW good job!!!!!

I am just starting that process and it scares me, so I am very impressed!!!!

Very good of you to notice something off with DS5. That says a lot about your strength, with everything that has been on your mind lately.

YAAAYYY KLOVE!!!!!!


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


Posts: 2918 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada
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