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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, April 20th (Sunday)

We take our once a decade boards in the morning. I'm dreading the Prometric no jewelry, wallets, search with a wand more than the actual test.

I made a P&J sandwich for lunch with Cheetos (how elem school) for comfort food.

It's only 380 questions with four possible answers for 1520 total possible answers. When I told fWS that her mouth dropped open. She took the test last year but isn't as OCD as I am. She took me on a dry run to the testing center tonight and pointed out through the window everything. She's also making me breakfast in the morning. She's been quite spectacular about it really.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, April 20th (Sunday)

Sending positive mojo your way. Deep breaths!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, April 20th (Sunday)

Sending lots of mojo. Best of luck!

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, April 20th (Sunday)

Mojo!


Ain't gonna lie, that lunch sounds yummy.

The boards...well, not so much, but go get em!


Sit. Feast on your life.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Sending tons of mojo! I'd continue in the morning as well, but you'll probably be done by the time I wake up.

You're gonna kill it. All the experience you've gained answering SI members' questions has to count for something too.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17810 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Violated
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Default  Posted: 3:36 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Mojo mojo mojo !!! Lunch does sound good


Divorced 10/2013

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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 4:40 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Some kick-a$$ test-taking mojo is on its way, pj4. Your lunch sounds like just the ticket for a stressful day.

Good luck!


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3890 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Sending you mojo, but I have every confidence you will ace it!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6605 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, April 21st (Monday)

MOJO PJ, remember the answers to the questions are what they want to hear, not what we do in real life.

You are awesome, and do great work. You will be fine.

((((and strength, and MOJO)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8705 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, April 21st (Monday)

You can do it. You'll be in my thoughts.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7763 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Sending lots and lots of mojo your way!


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, April 21st (Monday)

remember the answers to the questions are what they want to hear, not what we do in real life.

amen


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1753 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Sitting in car eating sandwhich. 1/2 done. I either know it or I don't.

I remember in the olden days we got to go to a fancy hotel and sit in a beautiful ball room and take it with pencil and paper.

This: I get searched and have to turn my pockets inside out.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, April 21st (Monday)

Good luck to you both. I don't understand the purpose of the security check. Is cheating that much of a problem or us the test in the secured area of an airport?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 21st (Monday)

DONE!!!!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, April 21st (Monday)

Whew!! When do you hear results?


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17810 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, April 21st (Monday)

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, April 21st (Monday)

YAY for being done! I hope your results are perfect!

And YUM to the cheetos.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, April 21st (Monday)

I took boards in the paper and pencil days. If you went to the bathroom a monitor went with you


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1753 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, April 21st (Monday)

Woo hoo!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, April 21st (Monday)

I am the wielder of the metal detector, we love that part. Not...!

gahurts, they recently had to take two students to hospital in China because they had crammed tiny earbuds so far down their ear canals they had to be surgically removed. They were getting the answers via Bluetooth from someone outside the test center.

We have to watch for people talking to themselves or fidgeting because they could have a mic hidden in their bra or something... Or a camera in their earrings or eyeglasses. So yeah, no bangles, wristwatches or necklaces, I imagine the earrings will be next.

PJ, I'm surprised you were allowed to take a break in your car. Our guys aren't allowed to leave the building.

We'll be doing a session at sparrow fart on Thursday morning. People bring their snacks and put them on top of the lockers, quite a feast of crazy food combinations and everyone is so stressed, but mostly very nice about everything.

We're waiting for the retinal scanners. That will probably be next, now that Google has invented the contact lens camera. (Thanks Google!)

If people put all the effort into studying that they put into cheating, the world would be a better place...

Glad you are done with that ordeal.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 2:59 PM, April 21st (Monday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, April 21st (Monday)

a session at sparrow fart

What??

Dr PJ glad it is over. Mojo sent for great results


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6605 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, April 21st (Monday)

Sending mojo for awesome test results!

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, April 21st (Monday)

It seems to depend on what test people are taking if they can leave the test center.

I just got searched and rewanded again when I went back in. I could have studied more in the car but by then I just didn't care anymore.

Now... To have fun! Leaving Thursday for NYC! Going to a Yankee game Friday and a broadway play on Saturday!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

Just so this, so sending post testing MOJO your way!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, April 26th (Saturday)

"Sparrow fart" is Britslang for "Way Too Fucking Early"



DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, April 26th (Saturday)

Have a great weekend!

Hope the results are good :)

Um, and can you pass the Cheetos?


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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