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looking forward
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Content  Posted: 6:36 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

Thanks to my husband for his wonderful support.
Thanks to SI members for their encouragement.
Thanks be to God for His grace.

I am determined to continue on this journey!

~ lf


[This message edited by looking forward at 6:53 AM, April 27th (Sunday)]


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

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Edith
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

Hi LF! Congratulations to you!!! May you have many more sobriety birthdays!!

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

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Gottagetthrough
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Member # 27325
Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

That is fantastic!

Congratulations on all of your hard work! And wishing you many more sobriety birthdays!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congrats!!!

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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congratulation!!!!

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metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, April 27th (Sunday)

May you continue to reap the rewards of an authentic life LF. Congratulations.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congratulations!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Woo hoo! You go, girl!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2787 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
AgainandAgain
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Member # 34835
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congratulations!!!! I'm so very happy for you and this accomplishment!!!

Wishing you many, many more to come


Posts: 232 | Registered: Feb 2012
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

whooo-hooo!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52680 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congratulations, lf.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25765 | Registered: Aug 2011
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

That's wonderful.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4611 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Crushed1
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Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Congrats (((LF)))! Wishing you the best on your journey!


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9756 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

Awesome!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Bluebird26
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Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:10 AM, April 28th (Monday)

Congrats on making what I am sure has been a difficult journey. Wishing you peace in your found freedom.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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dazdandconfuzed
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, April 28th (Monday)

Happy dance for you!!!


Me - BW
Him - WH

Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Cool  Posted: 7:59 AM, April 28th (Monday)

Congrats, way to go! That is very cool.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 28th (Monday)

That's great!

Keep up the good work.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
Brandon808
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Member # 35619
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, April 28th (Monday)

Congrats!


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4000 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
simplydevastated
Member
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, April 28th (Monday)

Congratulations!!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, April 28th (Monday)


..

..quite a milestone and accomplishment..

..you can be very proud of yourself!!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, April 28th (Monday)

This is awesome!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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