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inconnu
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Cool  Posted: 7:18 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!


It's official now so I can announce it. SO is moving to my city and moving in with me!!!!! No more LDR!!!

Did I mention - squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12149 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Oh inconnu, that''s fabulous! I''m so happy for you!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3089 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Inconnu that is awesome! Congrats!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4516 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Oh, my who would have guessed????

I am so happy for you. It pleases me to have good squeeeeee worthy news for my favorite peeps.

Hope that closet has room!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5821 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

I know. It's not like I wasn't dropping hints. I really thought I was going to be able to post the squee post last Friday, which is why I started teasing. But we were waiting for the official offer letter from SO's new job here, and that didn't happen until today.

and I just saw my typo in the subject line...lol, guess I'm so excited I can't type right tonight.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12149 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Congratulations! So happy for you!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Well, shucks. You could have knocked me over with a feather...

Congratulations to both of you. I'm so very happy for you!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20170 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

awwwww…..


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4142 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

You two are my beacon of hope for the future, seriously. So, so, so happy for you!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13740 | Registered: Jul 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Yay!! Happy for you!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7647 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

I love that you are excited even more than the news. And I thought <ahen> was maybe a regional dialect.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5821 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17391 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Very happy for you Inconnu!


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 748 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Great news!

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

OMG SQQQQQUUUUUUUEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

Congrats darlin!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2721 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

PS: I am *SHOCKED*!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17391 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

WOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

So excited!!! Soooo, housewarming g2g???


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17328 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

So very excited for you two!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25343 | Registered: Aug 2011
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

YIPEEEEE!!!!!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5485 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Awww


Sit. Feast on your life.

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Wonderful news. Congrats!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2673 | Registered: Jan 2010
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Woohoo!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13753 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Fabulous! Congrats! Squeeeeeeeeee!


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5815 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
MyVoice
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Member # 35695
Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

so happy for you


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 470 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

I'm so happy for the two of you!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Snap! Never saw THAT coming!

Congrats! All the best to you both.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:26 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Woohoo! Great news.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1333 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Worst kept secret EVAR!

Congrats!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21051 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!!! That is so very squeeeable!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1182 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

SQUEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

Posts: 3388 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Worst kept secret EVAR!

Don'tcha mean the 2nd worst?

Thanks y'all for squeeing with us. It really means a lot that we can share our excitement with all our friends.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12149 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
BelleStar
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Member # 13515
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Where's that damned LIKE A WHOLE LOT button when you need it!

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

yay!!!! So happy for you!

Is there gonna be enough room in the closet for his stuff??


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4166 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)


Posts: 2485 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
jjct
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Happy for you guys!

From an old old tune from Northumbria,
'The Peacock Follows the Hen'

All the neet ower and ower,
And all the neet ower again:
All the neet ower and ower,
The peacock follows the hen.


Posts: 6581 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

I refuse to "squee," , but I am very happy for you nonetheless!!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1110 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
thyme2go
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Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9177 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

AAaawwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!
I am so happy for you both!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15227 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
cryingdaily
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Member # 7276
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, April 30th (Wednesday)

OMG!!! YAY!!!


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, May 1st (Thursday)

SQUEEEEEE indeed! Happy, happy news! Congratulations to you two!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, May 1st (Thursday)

Congrats to you both!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, May 1st (Thursday)

Yay!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you both!!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5083 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, May 1st (Thursday)

You know I'm thrilled for you!!!! Keep smiling!!! You both deserve a ton of happiness!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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