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kate0421
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Member # 40819
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, May 2nd (Friday)

I''m feeling pretty positive today, so I thought I would share. I just joined Shapes fitness and I love it. I''ve had a gym membership but with my little one it was hard to find time to go and by the time i could it was so late. I needed to find something to keep me a little occupied and something for myself. Shapes has kid care so I don''t need to worry about that, I''ve tried out a few classes and I love Zumba. It might sound crazy but I bought a year membership and I feel like it was a gift to myself. It''s been soo long since I''ve done anything for myself and it feels good. The workouts have helped so much with my anxiety/stress.


ME: BS
HIM: WS
Together over 9yrs
2 children
DDAY 9/23/2013- 2 ONS (2009-2010)
TT. 5/14/2014- slept with OW1 twice

Posts: 274 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Tampa Bay Florida
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, May 2nd (Friday)

Taking care of you and focusing on your healing is the best way to walk through this trauma. Good for you! !


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3850 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
veronique12
Member
Member # 42185
Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, May 2nd (Friday)

Agreed! Keep it up. You will benefit greatly from this and any other steps you can take toward bettering yourself.


BW: me (38)
WH: 43
OW: false "friend"
D-Day: 11/29/13 (4 month EA discovered); 12/19/13 (discovered was also PA); TT thru 2/14
Married: 2001; Together for nearly 20 years
2 beautiful young kids

Posts: 558 | Registered: Jan 2014
Searchingforhope
Member
Member # 38437
Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, May 2nd (Friday)

kate...


The workouts have helped so much with my anxiety/stress.

That is awesome!

I found punching the sofa or the mattress to work for me, but to each his own...


Me: BW 51 (didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs

PA that lasted approx. 2 weeks. OW was a younger but totally screwed up %#@%!

DDay 4-25-12
Reconciling


Posts: 155 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: California
Topic Posts: 4