User Topic: craigslist
Member # 42621
Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Ughhhh...really, I had to find out about another site he was using.

Yesterday my WH texted me a CL ad about housesitting a cat for someone in out area, I love cats, it was a cute ad. In the evening I was looking for the ad again so I went to his phone CL app to look in his search history to find the ad. Within the search history I found the words tits and boobs. I was so disgusted. He said he was looking out of amusement and the searches were from a long time ago. But I can not tell when he made those searches.

I do believe him that the searches were from a while ago, but really why did I have to find this now. I asked him before if there is anything else he is hiding from me, any other websites he was using. At the time he told me I know about everything, obviously that was not true.

This morning I told him I need him to really think about what sites and applications he used to look at porn and to contact other women. Even though he may not be doing the activity now it still sucks to find out about them later.

Ugh...why do all of these sites exist? People find ways to ruin sites created for innocent purposes.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Feb 2014
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Hmm. Amusement?

Yeah. Not buying it.

There's enough porn on the internet that he could have gone to any number of sites to see "boobs" and "tits."

He was looking at a hookup site full of local girls.

Ask him what was so amusing about that site?

FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

Posts: 7898 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Member # 41192
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Ugh I'm sorry. My husband posted multiple sex ads on craigslist for "amusement" and to joke around with people. Yeah I sure wasn't laughing when I found those, still not :/. It's the #1 reason why I can't believe he never had a PA, since he was obviously seeking one and got responses

Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, sex addict, then 12 mos EA/2 mos PA with co-worker whore
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap PA began.
Separated, R during divor

Posts: 503 | Registered: Nov 2013
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Yep, my fwh used craigslist to post ads for NSA sex. When that failed, he decided to try escorts. Oddly, even most of them turned him down, because he was married. One didn't...

Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Yeah. Not buying it.

There's enough porn on the internet that he could have gone to any number of sites to see "boobs" and "tits."

He was looking at a hookup site full of local girls.

I also am not buying it. Puh-leeze.

Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 6th (Tuesday)

Nope, I don't either. Also I can't see history from that long ago still being close to the cat ad he recently viewed.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5238 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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