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User Topic: Reminder to All
SI Staff
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Target  Posted: 9:25 AM, May 15th (Thursday)

Reminder to All -

Pulling all or part of a thread from the WS forum and posting it in another forum is against the guidelines.

When posting in the WS, remember these rules:
BS's are not to post on threads unless the WS is seeking and asks for BS responses.

BS's are not to start threads asking questions of the WS's.

BS's & Madhatters are not allowed to post on stop sign threads.

Please review the site Guidelines in the yellow box to the left and all the forum descriptions under each forum title.

Thank you.


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painfulpast
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Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

BS's are not to post on threads unless the WS is seeking and asks for BS responses.

****gently raises hand*****


I was under the impression that no stop sign meant a BS could post. This sounds like the WS that originally starts the thread must also specifically state that BS responses are requested.

I'm only asking publicly in case others are also wondering about this.

Thanks :)


The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

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islesguy
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

I was under the same impression. I purposely don't put stop signs because I was BS responses. Are you saying as well as no stop sign I specifically need to say BS's welcome?


Me: WH
Father of 3 beautiful girls

* I am a RS (Recovering Scumbag)
* Do as I say, NOT as I did. :-(
* I acknowledge the grace I have received. I know do not deserve it.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

If there isn't a stop sign then BS's can reply on it.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

Thanks for the clarification DS!!!


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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remorsefulww
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

I have been on si for months, but I still dont know what a madhatter is.

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NoGoodUsername
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Member # 40181
Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

A madhatter is someone who is both a Betrayed and Wayward spouse.


Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."

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Deeply Scared
Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

Madhatter = A member that is both BS & WS in their current relationship


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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remorsefulww
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

Thank you.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

Of course


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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SandAway
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

Glad you posted this reminder DS.

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, May 15th (Thursday)

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...
Me too. The mods are amazing. I know for certain I am protected.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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pastthelies
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 16th (Friday)

Thank you DS! Very different perspective of the actual question to start with - so that makes for some heated responses. Thanks for having everyone's back.

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wheat
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, May 16th (Friday)

You rock, DS, MH, and all the staff.


"Every new day is another chance to change your life."

FSOW - late 30's, married now.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 16th (Friday)

Our members are pretty amazing.

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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, May 16th (Friday)

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...

I cringe just as much when a thread from an unprotected area gets discussed in a protected area with a stop sign.


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DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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