User Topic: It's Done
Member # 41347
What?  Posted: 6:12 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)

I told her what I am going to do and not because I want to. I gave her her clothes. She didn't seem that at all phased about my decision.

I told her I would still love to reconcile but you don't want to which is obvious. She said she just doesn't know because of somethings. Counselor, said if her mind isn't made up there is not much he can do for us. I dropped off the church key.

She kept using a lot of excuses and on the way home and I didn't get angry. I told her don't contact me unless it is about the daughter or finances.

I told her to talk to her parents about being added to their phone plan.

I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)

Define "somethings". She's full of shit and is as selfish as ever.

Very sorry LS. At least you are taking steps in a direction. Keep going. Call an attorney and file for D. The D can always be stopped later. Get it going and protect yourself.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)

It's a Mrs Samurai world I'm afraid. Self centered as usual. Keep on going forward LS.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5242 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)


You did well. It's hard, but it's done now.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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