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User Topic: For those hurting on Father's Day
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, June 13th (Friday)

For those who want to be dads but aren't.
For the dads who have lost their children.
For the dads who are don't get to see enough of their kids.
For the dads who are estranged from their kids.

For those who mourn their fathers.
For those who have complex or estranged relationships with their fathers.

Sending peace and comfort to all who hurt on Father's Day.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

Posts: 26152 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 41157
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, June 13th (Friday)

Thank you.

Posts: 205 | Registered: Oct 2013
Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, June 13th (Friday)

Thanks NIK.

Extra hugs to you, and your family this weekend as well.

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3521 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 20547
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, June 13th (Friday)

Thank you, and hugs for everyone.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014


Posts: 2333 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, June 13th (Friday)

Thank you, NIK.

ETA: Sending hugs and mojo back your way as well. ((( NIK and family )))

[This message edited by LosferWords at 10:05 PM, June 13th (Friday)]

Posts: 7986 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, June 13th (Friday)

Sending hugs to all those hurting.

Posts: 36438 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 11:56 PM, June 14th (Saturday)

I also have (((hugs))) for all who are struggling with Father's Day this year.

Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

Posts: 7844 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, June 15th (Sunday)

Thinking of you.

Sending Mojo and prayers your way.

BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3160 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, June 15th (Sunday)

Beautiful, NIK, as per usual.

"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18281 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, June 15th (Sunday)

Thank you. My relationship with my dad is difficult.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7816 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, June 15th (Sunday)

Thank you. I miss my daddy every day.

Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.

Posts: 2316 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
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