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allatsea
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Default  Posted: 2:02 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

My financial hearing is tomorrow and I'm dreading being anywhere near the CexWW and her CPOS.

But on the plus side Abbondad has flown to London for a couple of weeks and will be by my side at the hearing. How cool is that?!


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HobbesTheTiger
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

Awesome!:)


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Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

So cool! I hope you guys can have some fun after the hearing. You both deserve it.


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Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

Pics or it didn't happen.

Go easy on him, AAS. These Americans aren't used to warm, full strength beer.


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allatsea
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

I'll get some pics, as long as he doesn't mind having his face on here.

I've also told him that white socks and sandals and a 'fanny pack' are forbidden. You Americans don't know how to dress properly

[This message edited by allatsea at 6:28 AM, June 26th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

^^^

Fanny pack!! Remind him not to use the word 'bummer' either.

Euro makeover for AD.


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

Too funny: I am writing this from Stockholm airport, where my flight is delayed to my connecting flight to the UK--which may mean I will quite possibly not arrive. Like, a total bummer!

Meanwhile I am decked out in a cowboy hat emblazoned with a confederate flag, a checkered t-shirt that reads "Don't mess with the USA," black socks, and sandals. And two fanny-packs colored red, white and blue.

;-)


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Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

AD, that is quite the picture you are painting there. Why aren't you dating again?


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brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

This is so awesome! I hope you guys have a great time!! (and yes - pics!!)


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

So cool!

Absolutely! Abbondad IS that totally cool person!! You can tell by what he is wearing....

Hope you make it in time, Abbondad. Good luck, AAS.


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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

white socks and sandals and a 'fanny pack' are forbidden. You Americans don't know how to dress properly

I am decked out in a cowboy hat emblazoned with a confederate flag, a checkered t-shirt that reads "Don't mess with the USA," black socks, and sandals. And two fanny-packs colored red, white and blue.

Why aren't you dating again?


Love the humor -- or should I say humour?
Good luck tomorrow, aas.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

*like*


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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

dammit, I use the word 'bummer' all the time.

So neat that you two are able to meet!!! And there better be a pic!


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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

So happy for you guys. This thread makes me so !


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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

I can't even put words together to express how cool I think this is!


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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, June 26th (Thursday)

Should make for a great adventure!


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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

This is fantastic. Try not to get into too much trouble


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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

I. Love. This.

The outfit images especially


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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

This sounds like a rip-roaring good time!


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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

Now that's too cool...

WB


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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

Totally!!!


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Default  Posted: 2:37 AM, June 27th (Friday)

Argh! Missed a connecting flight to UK and had to spend the night in Sweden. Will miss AAS's hearing today, most regrettably.

Here is wishing him well!!

PS: Customs forcibly removed me of all ghastly-wear. Part of their "No Ugly American" rule (or NUA). I now can pass as a Bland Brit ;-)


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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Default  Posted: 4:37 AM, June 27th (Friday)

Ah boo!

Have a blast boys! And if you happen to be in London and see an ugly woman who looks like an Indian man please kick her in the lady-nads for me and also send her my thanks for being a part of my liberation.


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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, June 27th (Friday)

Retroactive good luck! How did it go?


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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, June 27th (Friday)

LMAO at the fanny pack comment. My dad still wears one. AD and AAS, have a great time! Have a few drinks for the rest of us!


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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 27th (Friday)

Is London ready for the two of you

The SE is basking in glorious sunshine - although thunder is hitting London on Sat. Typically I'm in London with a friend for the day - taking a brolly....us Brits love our US visitors....plus you're still in the FIFA world cup, and England has come home, tails between our legs


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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, June 27th (Friday)

First time posting to either of you, but followed your stories as a lurker practically since the beginning. You both were so strong in the face of each of your WW's crap. You both reminded me of what was in store if I chose to D my WH. And I did not like what I saw. Thank you both for being there, being honest about your feelings, and sharing them with strangers (us). I am so happy that you two will get to meet in person. Have a wonderful time, boys!


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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, June 27th (Friday)

Have a great time you two!!

Looking forward to pics.

K


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allatsea
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Hi guys,

I can't believe how surreal it is to be sitting in my living room posting on SI while Abbondad is laid out on my sofa doing exactly the same thing.

Right now we are listening to Pink Floyd at very high volume at half past ten at night and trading war stories.

Today we've toured, what feels like, most of London visiting all of the sights and a great time has been had introducing an American to all of the typical British foods, language and history.


In regards to the court hearing; CexWW came out with all guns firing trying to press every button I had. She knows where they are and exactly how to press them. Fortunately my barrister had seen quite enough of her crazy and cruel behaviour from all of the previous hearings and was also personally invested in this too. She gave everything she had, and more, into ensuring that CexWW suffered and didn't walk out happy. The opening position statement from my barrister set the tone with the judge and from the outset CexWW was on the back foot. The judge was very unimpressed with the procrastination and hideous actions and said as much but ultimately is unable to rule on moral behaviour and has to stick within the law and any discretion she may have.

In summary Cex wanted a total of £87,000 through a mixture of utter delusion and lies and the judge saw right through it. I was prepared to offer £57000 but it took £63000 and some persuasion from the judge to get it done.

Although I know it was a victory it still feels unjust that she should be handed a very large lump sum to start her new life with whilst stretching me to my limit.
She is very clearly pissed at the result and has already prevented me speaking with the children today. Ho hum. Maybe she'll start to mellow now.

She brought the grulet to the court but I'm glad that I didn't get to see it.

It was a very emotional day and even the barrister was feeling frustrated by the end of it. My platonic female friend was in tears when she experienced my ex at work first hand. Up to that point she only knew of my ex through my stories. On Friday she saw it directly and could hardly believe how cruel someone could be to another.

I've spent a couple of days processing the result and going over every reaction I had.

My ex is dead to me. I just wish my heart felt the same.

[This message edited by allatsea at 5:48 PM, June 29th (Sunday)]


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, June 29th (Sunday)


Darn. Trying to figure out how to post an image. What am I doing wrong? I followed the directions on this site. (I'm using photobucket)

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:45 PM, June 29th (Sunday)]


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Pic 1: Abbondad on left
Pic 2: Allatsea on left

Friend in the middle.

:-)

[This message edited by Abbondad at 5:52 PM, June 29th (Sunday)]


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Great pics!!!

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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

I want to visit across the pond!

Is that Billabong? Way to bring the fashion dad


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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

This is really cool. Reading this is one of those moments that shows just how great SI is at bringing people together and helping us all heal.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

We certainly are a supportive bunch. I was with you both in spirit.


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Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

That is indeed a Billabong, BG. It's the least loud garment I brought. Gotta represent! ;-)


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Another thought.

Think of the money as the ticket price for part 2 of your life. In this part of your life, you get to decide what happens, who it happens with, and how it happens. Definitely worth the price of admission.

Perspective, my friend.


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There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn''t give you away as an American and a Brit

I saw my divorce costs as a garbage removal fee, and worth every penny (pence).


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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit.

Billabong - go Australia!!

Great pics guys. Is the beer so warm they use coffee cups these days??

Regarding X - time for my favourite NIKism: "They know exactly which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!".

63 is a lot closer to 57 than 87 so I call that a win. My L told me in D a fair outcome is where everyone ends up a little pissed off. She is more pissed off than you - I call that a win for the good guys.

Now it is time to focus on her preventing access to your children. YOU go at her all guns blazing on this. This is the important stuff.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Super cool! Love this!!


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Him: up and left for OW
OW: old maid mid thirties with biological clock ticking, desparate for a man.
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

I waaaaanah go to London!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:42 PM, June 29th (Sunday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

So awesome to see you both!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

So cool!! Hope you guys are having a great time!


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Great to see you both!!!! How cool to meet up in London.


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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Allatsea, do you get to keep the marital home, or was that already decided, and I just missed it? BTW, you both look great - look out London!


Me: FBW, 48. Him: SAFWH, 57
3 fantastic kids: DS 17, DS 15, DD 10
DDay 1: 1/8/13, multiple DDays with TT for an entire year.

Working hard at R.
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Really nice pics, gents!

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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Love the pic. It's wonderful to see you two.


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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, June 29th (Sunday)

Note to self: next time in London meet AAS!

AD needs to come to the Florida g2g. Maybe AAS can plan a visit then.

Have fun you too. You both deserve it.

Oh and thanks for the pics.

K


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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, June 30th (Monday)

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit

I didn't see a fanny pack ...just sayin


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So shake him off
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, June 30th (Monday)

Abbondad - I don't think I've ever replied on your threads but I've read them. I remember you posted a picture on one of the picture threads in F&G last year some time. If that was a picture from that time I just have to say that the comparison is night and day. You look so much healthier. I remember seeing that picture and I could physically see the pain of the crap going on in your life. You look happier and like you are healing.


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WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


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Default  Posted: 4:31 AM, June 30th (Monday)

Thank you, TCD. So sweet of you to say. This trip is one in a series of "Walkabouts" for me. (SBB, I assume you know what I'm referring to?) I am determined to be proactive in my healing and in my writing my own Chapter II of my life. A journey alone (albeit also with an aim to meet and support my friend) is part of my self-prescription.

And English food is terrific.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, June 30th (Monday)

@ Walkabout - I do know what those are.

You do look 10 years younger from that first pic you posted. So much happier. Funny how you don't notice grief until you see it gone. I know you're still grieving but you're not in abject grief anymore. I look back on pics of me during that terrible time and I'm like a shadow. These days I look... alive. All good stuff.

Chapter I is closed - bring on Chapter II!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, June 30th (Monday)

Great pics of cool guys.
Did Abbondad pop over to the Mulberry shop for a more acceptable fanny pack? (Couldn't help noticing.......)
I think AAS will be doing a few little walkabouts hisself pretty soon.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, June 30th (Monday)

That is awesome that you boys got to get together. Enjoy your time.
AAS, I am so happy that things turned out the way they did.

AD - You actually do appear to be a "different guy" That is fantastic, because you have started to heal yourself, into a great man. Enjoy your Walkabout. It is great for healing the soul.

(((and strength)))

Have a pint for me!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, June 30th (Monday)

Givingtree,

Yes, I got to keep the house and all the contents. I also keep all of the household contents and the third vehicle. I keep my pension too.

I suppose when I put it like that it sounds pretty good!


You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it

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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 1st (Tuesday)

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit.


Billabong - go Australia!!


Thats what I thought..

Great to see you guys


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