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MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Content  Posted: 7:54 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

YAY!!!! 1,000 Posts!!!! Thank you for your straight forwardness in your posts. You have a way to get right to the heart of the issue and that is needed for many here. Thank you for being there for the new waywards that find their way here as well as the help in R forum too.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52112 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Yay! 1000 posts for my SFAM

Congrats 20W, don't know where I'd be without you.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1234 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Congrats, 20W! Thanks for all you do around here!

Posts: 6980 | Registered: Dec 2010
20WrongsVs1
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Member # 39000
Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

BBT how cool is it that we hit 1,000 on the same day?

Thank you Moo, for the kind words. Thanks Losfer.

I''d like to buy the house a round.

And not to exclude the teetotalers


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1163 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Congratulations! Thank you for all you do.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25258 | Registered: Aug 2011
BrokenButTrying
Member
Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)

It's very cool we have our 1000th post parties on the same day! No one else I'd rather share it with.

It's 3.30pm here in the uk and a lovely 27°c. I make that Pimms o'clock!


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1234 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Congrats!!!

Posts: 35063 | Registered: Mar 2011
WalkinOnEggshelz
Member
Member # 29447
Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Congratulations!


Me: WS 42
Him: BH 43(HoldingTogether)
M: 18years, together 22
2 Daughters: 13 and 10
D Day: 7/24/2010; TT to 10/17/10
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

Posts: 678 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Texas
knightsbff
Member
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, July 6th (Sunday)

Yay! Congrats!!!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1423 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Tred
Member
Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, July 6th (Sunday)

Congrats! And what Moo said


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3910 | Registered: Dec 2011
Deeply Scared
Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, July 7th (Monday)

Congratulations!!! You've been a huge help here!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197661 | Registered: May 2002
tired girl
Member
Member # 28053
Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, July 7th (Monday)

Congrats lady, you have come a long way


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4831 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, July 7th (Monday)

Yay!!!!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
HardenMyHeart
Member
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, July 7th (Monday)

Congrats!


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5643 | Registered: Aug 2007
yearsofpain25
Member
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Congrats 20WV1!

I have read many of your posts. Thank you


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2054 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
wheredoigo
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Member # 42327
Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

A sincere thanks for your posts, 20WV1! Always a huge help. Congrats on your milestone. Thank you for being here!


WW(me) 33
BS(him/Jt8d) 35 | Teaches me real, true unbroken love every day.

"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully." J. Brot


Posts: 163 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Midwest
StillLivin
Member
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, July 10th (Thursday)

Woot woot!!!!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2230 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
pizzalover
Member
Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, July 10th (Thursday)

Yippee!! Thanks for being so supportive of me!!


Repulsed daily by my actions

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 39 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 436 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: PA
20WrongsVs1
Member
Member # 39000
Cool  Posted: 2:05 PM, July 10th (Thursday)

Gosh, thank you so much, everyone!

Tred, yop, all y''all Menz, the insights you''ve shared have helped me so much, thank you.

Tired Girl, pretty sure you did some ass-kicking back in the day, for which I''m forever grateful. So glad, again, that you''re back!

kbff, WOES, pl, my formerly wayward sistahs, your support and feedback means the world to me.

Really glad I found SI, thank you DS for this great resource. But I''ll leave the smooching of MH to you.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1163 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
cantaccept
Member
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, July 10th (Thursday)

You give more than you know. Congratulations!


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced 8/5/14


Posts: 1328 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
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