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loveisareddress
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Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

Just about done here.

Christ.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 442 | Registered: Aug 2012
OakStreet
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Member # 41193
Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

loveisareddress:

I don't have any advice here, since I don't know your situation, but wanted you to know that you've been heard.

Others will be along soon.....


Me: 58
Him: 65
Married: 21 years (well, we'll say 19 now!).
One son: 19, 2 adult stepdaughters
DDay: Oct. 14, 2013
18 month EA/PA with COW
Dday #2: 4/16/14 - took it underground for 5 months.
Haven't decided on outcome.

Posts: 436 | Registered: Nov 2013
loveisareddress
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Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

We've been married for 15 years.

FML.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 442 | Registered: Aug 2012
Broken1Again
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Member # 32211
Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

Maybe not the reaction you were expecting but here goes anyways....

ALLELUIA!!!!!!!! Your mother would not want to be this man's MIL anyway. He is a shameful excuse for a man. So thank goodness someone else has garnered the title of "MIL". Let them find out exactly what kind of SIL or should I say SOB he really is.


BS: 40
WS: 42
Two boys 13/11
Married 15 years
Dday: too Many to remember. 3 significant OW and many "less"'significant OW. Believe WS has bad boundaries and craves the attention.
In R.

Posts: 878 | Registered: May 2011
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

Your mother would not want to be this man's MIL anyway. He is a shameful excuse for a man. So thank goodness someone else has garnered the title of "MIL"
I completely agree. He is living in fantasyland, and so are they.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3348 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
loveisareddress
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Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

He never sees her. I have suspected over the years that he may use her to keep tabs on XW.

His profile does not mention a relationship, yet XW mom is specifically listed as his MIL.

There is a family picture on his timeline, but only because SD tagged him in a photo she posted on her timeline.

I am just so MF done here.

I cannot believe this.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 442 | Registered: Aug 2012
loveisareddress
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Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

My main problem with this is if you don't really know us, it looks like he is still married to XW.

Not good.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 442 | Registered: Aug 2012
loveisareddress
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Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, July 6th (Sunday)

Just wanted to add-the family picture is OUR family and it looks like SD tagged it after he named "MIL" which makes him look absolutely batshit crazy.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 442 | Registered: Aug 2012
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