I am so frustrated with WS tonight.
One of the OW is his sister's long time best friend. For the record, after his sister found about him cheating with her best friend and after WS apologized to her for getting her involved, she stated that he had nothing to apologize for and it was not his fault. She is not exactly a friend of the marriage. Anyway... Last night, WS received an inappropriate text from a male friend who also happens to be the best friend of my brother in law(sister's h). The text was sexual. Total red flag to me because WS had a threesome with another friend and the first ow). Trigger, trigger, trigger. It turns out(I think) that it was a text sent to the wrong person. WS said something like "great. Now my wife is mad at me" and it turned out that the guy knew why because BIL had shared the story with him. I was pissed because we had asked that sister and BIL not sure info with anyone. I asked WS to confront his sister.
She calls tonight and he immediately takes the phone outside out of earshot. Says he talked to her about it. I don't believe him and I wish he would stop sharing anything with her given she is best friends with the ow. I think he should have had the conversation in front of me. I'm angry and hurt.
How should he have handled it?