We've had very intense issues like this in the past and we always suggest that both sides should express their side of things without taking posts and dragging them into other forums.
If you find something that your H has said and you don't agree with it or feel is untrue...you can always open your post with "he states (whatever it is that's bothering you) but I would like to clear things up..."
As long as posts from both sides aren't pulled out of their respective forums to be torn apart and camps built. (not saying you would do that...just clarifying)
It's difficult to be on the same forum when things are so sensitive and volatile right now, but I'm confident you can work through this, no matter what you decide to do. Stay strong and stay steady "Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.