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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, July 15th (Tuesday)

(The title should have read Mods PLEASE)

What is the protocol for when you see something your WS posted in his thread that you strongly disagree with?
I know not to post on his thread and I dont want to get into a "thread war".

Any suggestions?

Thank you.

[This message edited by GabyBaby at 12:33 PM, July 15th (Tuesday)]


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, July 15th (Tuesday)

Gaby...

We've had very intense issues like this in the past and we always suggest that both sides should express their side of things without taking posts and dragging them into other forums.

If you find something that your H has said and you don't agree with it or feel is untrue...you can always open your post with "he states (whatever it is that's bothering you) but I would like to clear things up..."

As long as posts from both sides aren't pulled out of their respective forums to be torn apart and camps built. (not saying you would do that...just clarifying)

It's difficult to be on the same forum when things are so sensitive and volatile right now, but I'm confident you can work through this, no matter what you decide to do. Stay strong and stay steady

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:38 PM, July 15th (Tuesday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 15th (Tuesday)

Thank you!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for cl


Posts: 6679 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Topic Posts: 3