User Topic: Memory fail
Member # 33343
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, July 21st (Monday)

After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.
Sweet relief.

ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11

Posts: 339 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 21st (Monday)

Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.

Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome:

Posts: 874 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Member # 43131
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday)

That is great. I hope I get there someday!

"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 341 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
Member # 38975
Funny  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday)


That is awesome. Congratulations.

I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.

I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.

Relish in your relief. Progress.

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1289 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, July 21st (Monday)


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18350 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, July 21st (Monday)

...wait ... your post made me . I hope you're laughing, too.

She's getting all the respect she deserves.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10580 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, July 21st (Monday)

Posts: 36485 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday)

I realized I cannot remember her name.

^^How does that even happen?

I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name!

ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

Posts: 2134 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 43889
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, July 21st (Monday)

that must feel good

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