User Topic: Memory fail
Member # 33343
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, July 21st (Monday)

After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.
Sweet relief.

ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11

Posts: 339 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 21st (Monday)

Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.

Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome:

Posts: 852 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Member # 43131
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday)

That is great. I hope I get there someday!

"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 339 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
Member # 38975
Funny  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday)


That is awesome. Congratulations.

I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.

I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.

Relish in your relief. Progress.

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1283 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, July 21st (Monday)


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18292 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, July 21st (Monday)

...wait ... your post made me . I hope you're laughing, too.

She's getting all the respect she deserves.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, July 21st (Monday)

Posts: 36451 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday)

I realized I cannot remember her name.

^^How does that even happen?

I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name!

ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

Posts: 2133 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 43889
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, July 21st (Monday)

that must feel good

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