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RE: What to do about my sons girlfriend cheating ??

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:10 PM

Hi. I wanted to give an update on my story. I talked with my daughter and she said she will talk to my son about his gf tonite. I just hope it works out between them.

[This message edited by Beckiboo72 at 5:20 PM, September 10th (Monday)]

Wool94 posted 9/10/2018 17:14 PM

Excellent. Keep us posted.

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:19 PM

What is D DAY ??

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:20 PM

How do u give a link to my story

HellFire posted 9/10/2018 17:28 PM

You hope he and the cheating girlfriend can work things out? Why?

He's a teenager. This girl has been cheating on him for a long time. He's at the age of where he's learning what is,and what isn't acceptable behavior in a relationship. He's not married,and they have no kids. The best thing for your son would be for him to respect himself enough to break it off with her. Because he knows he's deserving of more than the incredible disrespect he's been shown.

You need to discuss him getting tested for STDs. Right away.

[This message edited by HellFire at 5:29 PM, September 10th (Monday)]

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:31 PM

I meant handle it himself as far as dumping her and his so called BFF as a young man. Not reconciliation

[This message edited by Beckiboo72 at 5:31 PM, September 10th (Monday)]

HellFire posted 9/10/2018 17:33 PM

You also need to be prepared for him to be angry with you and his sister. You both knew,and neither of you said anything to him for quite a while. He will feel betrayed by both of you. Rightly so.

Don't get angry and defensive with him. Apologize. Tell him parenting is hard,and parents are just people...and sometimes we don't know the correct way to handle every situation. That we do the best we know how,and when we know better, we do better.

HellFire posted 9/10/2018 17:34 PM

Ok... good! Thank you for clarifying that for me!

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:37 PM

Yeah I didnt mention the other guy was his BFF

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:39 PM

Wait I have another question. Should he know the details ??? ( I know most of them ) or would that be too much and to just have my daughter let him know it happened.

northeasternarea posted 9/10/2018 17:44 PM

Wait I have another question. Should he know the details ??? ( I know most of them ) or would that be too much and to just have my daughter let him know it happened.

You should not be sharing any information that you don't know firsthand to be true.

Beckiboo72 posted 9/10/2018 17:47 PM

Ok so ill let ger do it.

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