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 LizXJS (original poster member #8616) posted at 6:24 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Why is it that sexy undies on girls is ...sexy.

BUT, sexy undies on guys is...creepy?

What man would ever admit to wearing anything of the 'banana hammock', 'marble pouch' variety? (We are not talking silk boxers here guys)

What woman finds this stuff 'sexy' or 'attractive'?

What man wears a thong?!

Seriously, we women get single and go shopping for 'recreational undies', men get single and they just throw out the underware with the dead elastic, huge holes and stains on them.

Affairs cause a cycle of destruction - End the cycle and begin a new cycle of CONSTRUCTION

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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 6:31 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I have never found thongs or banana hammocks to be very attractive on men.

Give me a pair of simple boxer briefs on a well-shaped guy and that's all that's required.

Cat

FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
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miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 6:32 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I request my men come to bed dressed like this!

Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16

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ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 6:34 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

[This message edited by ladyvorkosigan at 12:34 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

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annben ( member #8703) posted at 6:55 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I've seen that pic a million times, yet it never stops being funny to me.

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 LizXJS (original poster member #8616) posted at 7:25 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Mia...you mean you don't find the mesh over shirt just a bit...too much?

Hell, the abs alone would be enough for me

I KNEW someone would throw dear sweet Borat in here!

Affairs cause a cycle of destruction - End the cycle and begin a new cycle of CONSTRUCTION

Fucked up people do fucked up shit - DONT be fucked up!

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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 7:41 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I like *boxers* on a MAN.

A Real Man...( & not one like WH who wants to wear My Pannies! )

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I called him an ambulance."
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Livnaway ( member #7821) posted at 7:43 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I wear boxers.

Women are so lucky as theyhave stuff designed to really make them look prettier.

i think for the most part, underwear is just practical with men.

For example, keeping me from severing my huge penis off when I zip up my pants.

miadianna,

if a guy comes to bed dressed like that to your bed, I promise all you are going to do is sleep.

[This message edited by Livnaway at 1:45 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

Just adding my contribution to the nation's divorce rate.

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Stessierere ( member #10765) posted at 7:46 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I'm with Cat: boxer briefs.

But Annben's right, too..

[This message edited by Stessierere at 2:14 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

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annben ( member #8703) posted at 7:52 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I prefer boxers, but at this point if they're clean and unripped you won't hear complaints from me.

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Livnaway ( member #7821) posted at 7:58 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

And talking about practical. I wear boxers because they look cool and not stupid.

But are they really practical? The legs all bunch up and ride up. Your elephant trunk is loose so it brushes around in there and is not held in place and it tickles some times and you nuts are just dangling around.

But I am afraid if I was knocked unconcious and had to go to the hospital, someone might see me in something gross like briefs

[This message edited by Livnaway at 1:58 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

Just adding my contribution to the nation's divorce rate.

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 7:59 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

at this point if they're clean and unripped you won't hear complaints from me.

I like anything except thongs, marble pouches and banana hammocks. Even commando is better than any of these choices

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Kuwaited ( member #5491) posted at 8:34 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Give me a pair of simple boxer briefs on a well-shaped guy and that's all that's required.

Ah....and there's the rub (no pub intended )

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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 8:42 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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 LizXJS (original poster member #8616) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Since the men aren't going to EVER admit to wearing anything less than dignified boxers....

Women - Has your man ever 'surprised' you by wearing anything he 'thought' was sexy...and was it? or not!?

STBX once (early in the relationship) thought he would be sexy by dressing ala Chippendales in a ripped t-shirt (sleeves cut off , belly showing) and briefs and dancing for me I laughed so hard I had tears in my eyes!! It was so damn rediculous, a 50 year old man trying to look 20.

NO underware on with jeans is the sexiest!!! No matter what age you are.

Affairs cause a cycle of destruction - End the cycle and begin a new cycle of CONSTRUCTION

Fucked up people do fucked up shit - DONT be fucked up!

I am a vulgarian , from the planet Expletive!

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:10 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Give me a pair of simple boxer briefs on a well-shaped guy and that's all that's required.

Ah....and there's the rub (no pub intended )

Kuwaited, it's not always about a man's physique. We all have our preferences. That's to be expected, but they're not all the same for all women. I've dated everything from extremely thin to extremely large men and the ones who I was attracted to the most were the ones with a great sense of humor.

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 9:20 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

A great sense of humor doesn't translate to looking hot in underwear, but I do appreciate that women look beyond the physical.

Many men would be in trouble if you (women in general) didn't!.

I have tried for years to reclaim some semblance of the physique I had when I was 18.

It is never going to happen.

I may end up looking okay, but after years of being heavy, earlier, and being 50 years old, I have to face reality.

I hope to look decent in a pair of boxer-briefs. I will never feel good enough to pose in them, or be photographed in them. That's just the breaks, I guess.

-D

[This message edited by Defiance at 3:20 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

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sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 9:20 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

Boxer briefs or boxers are good. Briefs are acceptable but I prefer the others! I always wondered who bought the novelty thongs, you know the ones with the elephant or santa hat on them! They are way out there and I would probably die laughing and hurt the poor guy's ego.

[This message edited by sadcat at 3:25 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]

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thyme2go ( member #12908) posted at 9:21 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

-t2g

BH - no longer 50
3 DD's - (32, 28 and 21)
Divorced on 8/6/09

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MoeGreen63 ( member #6832) posted at 9:29 PM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

I dunno about the "looking cool" in your underwear thing.

I do the boxer briefs because they're boxers and they're briefs. How can you go wrong?

And remember, if there's no junk hatch then they're just shorts.

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