So my STBXWH calls me yesterday and I chose not to answer my cell phone. He calls back from my son's cell phone and leaves me a voice mail asking me if I want to meet to have lunch or dinner tomorrow (Friday). I listened to the message and after hanging up I and am perplexed at why he wants to meet. Now mind you, I have been sad, moping and thinking about my 16th anniversary on Friday, and the failure of my marriage, but when he called and left the message, I was not thinking about it at that moment.
Okay, so here's the kicker - he's over at my house with the kids (I went and ran errands so I wouldn't have to see him), and he calls me right before he leaves my house and leaves that message. I am driving home and I pass him going from the town his diseased troll lives in toward my house in the next town, and he is heading towards her house after leaving my house and that message. Unbelievable. So I get home and DD says daddy says its your anniversary on Friday and he wants to take you out. I couldn't believe it - I am going to spend my anniversary day finishing up my financial end, digging through boxes of documents, so I can get it to my attorney to prepare a settlement offer to hopefully be done with this soon.
Oh, and my original plan was to stay at home and feel sorry for myself, but I have plans on spending my anniversary with the people I love and love me, which is my children and then I'm going to do something with some friends later in the evening - we're thinking of a comedy club. I almost want to meet him - if I could think of a way to get her there thinking he called - see how the diseased troll feels seeing her "boyfriend" with his wife. Anyway, that would take too much effort, so I'm going to do something for me that will be fun - but the thought of revenge makes me feel good.
[This message edited by Wipedout at 9:46 AM, March 11th (Thursday)]
me: 50 and free at last as of October 21, 2011 - independence day! I never thought I would say that I am happy to be divorced - happy is not the right word - ecstatic to be divorced describes me.
XH - Doesn't matter anymore.
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