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ArkLaMiss (original poster member #14918) posted at 3:28 AM on Wednesday, February 6th, 2013
Is it worth it or money down the drain? Need feedback, please.
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 5:55 AM on Wednesday, February 6th, 2013
I signed up for the free email course, and it looks like money down the drain.
Also seemed to involve a lot of rugsweeping based on the content of the emails.
The worst part is, the doesn't understand NC or the 180, because after he said it was the last email unless I signed up, he kept sending them for a couple of months.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
ArkLaMiss (original poster member #14918) posted at 3:03 PM on Wednesday, February 6th, 2013
Thanks for the feedback. Thats exactly what I was afraid of!
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
MammaMia ( member #34030) posted at 4:16 PM on Wednesday, February 6th, 2013
I had signed up for the free emails short after DDay. I was not impressed with his advice.
If his book is anything like his free emails, I think you are better off saving your money.
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
awebercomm8 ( new member #38455) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, February 14th, 2013
Using Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot camp is one of the greatest things I ever did for my marriage!
His advice is amazing.
Putting love first really did change mine and my husband’s outlook on our marriage.
Give it time. You will see Mr. Fertel can make all the difference.
ladypersephone ( member #38638) posted at 12:05 PM on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013
awebber,
Was your husband on board? Mine is not so don't think it will work.
WW (Me) 33 (MH)
BS/RA (him) 36 (MH)
Formerly fiercely in love.
Currently on desolation row...
why2008 ( member #18378) posted at 2:48 PM on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013
Kind of suspicious that awebercomm8 has made only one post, and that post was in support of Mort Fertel's progam a month ago and has made no other posts on any other subject.
Me - BS - 46
Him - WS - 44
Two daughters / 10 and 7
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 3:38 PM on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013
Yeah, and posted that immediately on the day membership was approved. No other profile or anything.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
MilitaryFairy ( new member #38762) posted at 6:38 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
I signed up for the emails and since I thought we were working on our marriage at the time,but knew something was still going on,I knew my husband wouldn't be on board.Hell he lied in counseling so I knew Internet therapy was out the window.
Would you still call them Heroes if you knew how they treated their spouses?
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:29 PM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013
why2008 and Aesir....
This person didn't do anything wrong. People lurk...not everyone jumps in to post on a daily basis. All this member did was post something encouraging on an existing thread.
Please don't be so quick with accusations, imagine how that person must be feeling.
ETA:
Yeah, and posted that immediately on the day membership was approved
Aesir...
You have no idea what the date was that their membership was approved. What you're looking at is the date they ACTIVATED their account. For all you know...I could have approved their registration 5 years ago and they now just activated it. Please don't throw false statements out there.
[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 9:09 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)]
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
chlee214 ( new member #39155) posted at 6:33 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
I bought the CD's and the book - his advice will only work if both of you are committed to saving the marriage - obviously my other half isn't or I wouldn't be on here.
If I can survive this, I can survive anything.
alphakitte ( member #33438) posted at 11:28 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
Even if the WS is on board Fertel's course requires the BS to accept a large amount of rugsweeping.
Not worth any amount of money, in my apinion.
------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt
BIZZYBEEZ ( member #37645) posted at 8:19 AM on Friday, May 3rd, 2013
My WH & I both have this book & both liked it. It was given to us by my boss who is the only person who knows about the A. Her & her H have read it on more than 1 occasion. It's more about putting the love back in your marriage than a how to get through an affair. Reading the book made us both realize we'd been living as roommates for several years.
BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 39
DDay - 10/22/2012 (worst day of my life)
Learning to breathe again - one day at a time
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