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I still cant get over the fact that he stated on his denied PO order that I tried to poison him~! I wonder why he begged me to make ham and beans the day he left and ate tons. He told this to my kids and everyone else also.

He also stated I mixed his meds! Never have I or would do such a thing, ever. Well maybe now, haha. J/K I am sure he dreamed this one u[ because I once put a different color of baby aspirin in his weekly meds because the were new and yellow instead of orange. And he kept his meds out in the open and never hid them from me! Wouldnt someone sscared of me hide their meds?

And the third comment that he made is that I had a gun and threatened to shoot him. The only time a gun was mentioned was last May when he ordered me out of my trailer(after I saw him come home from a night on the town with OW). He screamed he should have done away with me when he had the chance! He was referring to when he put a loaded rifle to my head and cocked it screaming he was going to kill me! Why? Because the line was busy when he tried to call from the tavern and he accused me of talking to a guy! He was always saying things like that because he was insanely jealous and I did absolutely nothing. It was all in his mind. My reply when he stated he should have done away with me is that I "can get a gun". I felt very hurt and defensive over him saying what he did and it brought back a very bad memory.

WHO does these things and writes crap like this and then tells all of the family and friends? What is wrong with him? Why does he continue to destroy my reputation?

This makes me soooooooo angry!

Hugs SweetheartVixen.

I dont understand, and dont believe I will ever understand why they lie.

We get to deal with not only the injustice of the A but the lies afterward. Its just not fair.

Sorry I dont have any advice or good words to explain or make it better, just wanted to give you hugs.

(((((SweetheartVixen))))) He is obviously very sick in his mind. I know how you are feeling. I will never understand the lies and the mean things my stbx has said about me. It stings. Hugs and support,

I'm laughing. I learned at our divorce hearing that my husband had 'feared for his life the last 10 years of our 35 year marriage.' Wow. What a surprise to hear that ! Good thing I kept all those anniversary and birthday cards from him, all declaring his undying love & saying how lucky he was to have me and more (what I now consider to be) blah blah blah. The judge actually stated he wasn't buying the fear factor. Thank you. The lies the cheaters come up with - whenever I read Si, I'm astonished at the crap cheaters drop on their BS's, their children & families. IMO, when the smoke clears, people figure it out if they haven't already. Hold your head high and ignore.

Hi Sweet heart... I wish I had let him die when he was cussing me out for calling an ambulance while he was having his heart attack.

I know now why people do kill their ex....when they have cut your throat (after you save their ass) AND THEN, stab you every month for not wanting to pay my alimony, attorney fees & equalization, it gets to the point where when the hope that life will get better, keeps sliding further & further away, I do ponder killing him.

Yea I think he wants an excuse for the kids and others to accept his ho when he comes out with her if he hasnt already.

If I am the "bad guy" then he becomes the good guy and anything he does is ok. He Makes me sick.

poisoning him

Just say the word and it can be done. We have many intelligent evil minds on SI, just saying...

Your STBXH is working the victim card to the max. I would be damn if I would keep his secrets. I know you have but the game is on now ! I would make sure the abuse and insults are brought up every chance I could to the attorneys and in mediation/settlement meeting. EVERY DAMN CHANCE I COULD ! No holding back.

I found out after dday FT signed a line of credit on the house as a single male.Can you say felony ? He was very much married to me and needed my signature. I used the fact with copies of the papers in court papers (expense disclosures and a few others) and he was worried..

I made it a point his attorney had my side of the marital story. I was Pro Se and I didn't know better.

Stay strong and know he has won a few battles but you will win the war.

Big Hugs,

Gma

(((((SweetheartVixen))))) He is obviously very sick in his mind. I know how you are feeling. I will never understand the lies and the mean things my stbx has said about me. It stings. Hugs and support,

^^^This.^^^

Mine said I bit him. I know it's not quite the same as poison and shooting him (!), but I completely understand the shock and the unfairness of being accused of something you didn't do and would never do.

They're all crazy. Really.

These people will go to any lengths to justify their actions in front of kin and friends. It makes me wonder if we married the same person.

My FWW told her parents and siblings that I hit her twice.

She re - wrote marriage history.

Said I used to chew tobbacco and ask to have sex with her.

Said I used to ask her to get high on pot for more performance.

She said my father made sexual advances towards her.

She said I used to tie her up and have sex with her.

To all of the above I just replied in the legal notice and in the police station thus:

If I was doing all the things she claims then why didn't she inform the authorities earlier ? Plus she is a daughter of a cop (ex - cop now).

Why has this surfaced only after the exposure of the A ?

Crickets after that.

The truth always comes out in the wash.

monster has just lost a bunch of friends by his own actions (primarily being a douchebag but also a ridiculous vent on FB).

That is all my fault too. I must have made him a douchebag loser with my supernatural douchebag laser.

You can't control what he does but you sure can control how much you let it impact you.

Who gives a flying fuck what he says? You know the truth. Those that know you would know how insane his accusations are. Those that believe him are bigger idiots than he is.

The truth always comes out friend. Take heart that this is the behaviour of a desperate, wounded animal. Stay true to you - maintain your integrity.

In 20 years you'll hardly remember any of this but you will be proud of maintaining your integrity.

Well I'm just a bitch so now that his PO was denied, I would demand how he knew about the poison when the person who sold it to me guaranteed it was tasteless and what were you doing rooting around in my closet which you inadvertently admitted to since you found my gun.

seriouslylostit, You made me laugh, thx~!

alien, I hear you. I got him to hospital just in time and said I wonder what would have happened had I called an ambulance(they had been taking 30 minutes the previous week for 3 people). He translated that into me saying I wanted him dead.

Oh and I imagine the poisoning story came from the week b4 he left. He came down from his upstairs room and said his teeth tasted funny and what did I do. Well, apparently he must have put his teeth in a bowl of freshener i had in the bathroom instead of his cool whip container. He is legally blind. I had moved that bowl from my sons room when FT went in there rooting for clothes and I was afraid hed spill it on the wood floor. I truy think he made it up anyway because he woudnt take them out and let me clean them. And the only thing that smelled was his finger and not his mouth. The lies they invent are unbelievable.

Yea and wouldnt he think Id be smart enough to use something odorfree and tasteless, LOL. He sure doesnt give me much credit.

Choosing, Oh I had the bite story too. BUT I did bite him. This was 8 yrs ago when we were returning from Fl. and he had to stop at every exit (with no working wiper blades) and call his ho. It was about to storm severey and I was annoyed. He then stops at a shell station and screams at me when he lost his glasses. He accused me of taking them and got on top of me in from of 2 cops sitting there( he didnt see them i did) and when he started hitting me and holding my hands I did bite him to get him off of me. The cops didnt even turn around! When I was on the exit ramp trying to get him back in car to hurry and go see my dying sister the cops saw the commotion and came to the ramp. He told them I bit him and he did nothing. I was arrested but cleared when the other cop told the true same story that i did. But this was a week later. I had NO idea the cop said he saw the incident and lied on the report. He was suspended and I hope he was terminated. I did not go and testify but now I wish I had! He still lives in denial and lies about that story. He told my kids lies and I never told them anything.

He is an evil vindictive creature.