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MichelleRenee (original poster member #38880) posted at 2:17 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I JUST filed for divorce on 3/25. On the weekend of April 6th I left our 8 yr old with my STBX for his custody weekend and went to my parents' home. My son told me they went hiking, out to eat, and to a friend's house to swim that weekend. JUST THE 2 OF THEM.
I look on my STBX's Facebook today and see photos of him and another woman posted on 4/9. The caption was "isn't she gorgeous". Guess who took the photo??? My 8 year old!!!!!!! He had the OW here in my house with my kid OVERNIGHT while I was gone! He told our son to lie to me but I put 2 n 2 together and gently asked my son what actually happened.
This a-hole hasn't even been served yet. He claimed no sexual relationships. HAhahaha. I knew he was a liar but I didn't know he was low enough to involve our son already. I am nauseated.
[This message edited by MichelleRenee at 8:17 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)]
Me - 37
lying cheating a-hole - 36
kids - 17,12,10
D-day 3/25/2013
Filed for divorce 3/26/2013
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 2:46 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
So sorry to hear about this. I know it hurts. Believe me.
My kids actually had playdates for over a year with OW and her kid without me knowing. My kids lied to me that whole time cause "dad told us not to tell you, that he would tell you, and you would be mad if we talked about it." It's an absolutely horrible feeling knowing your kid can keep secrets and tell you lies..
Maybe it's just my state, but all the lawyers I talked to said there's nothing I can do about who he brings around the kids. Common F'ing sense says to wait and give the kids time to adjust, but these A-holes don't have any of that as we know..
Lots of hugs to you..
Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 3:12 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I believe I'd be staying in my home for "his" custody weekends from now on. Whether he likes it or not. He lost the right to have the house to himself when he violated it and he told your son to lie about it. What a colossal prick. FTG.
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
magnew ( new member #39013) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I got a call from my son (age7) on spring break in the morning and the first thing he said was I slept in ___'s bed. My STBX had my son sleeping with him and the OW when he had only met her once and we only split up in January. Thought I was going to throw up. The nothing we can do part is the hardest, it seems that 'in the best interest of the child' in divorce these days is really 'in the best interest of the lying cheeting STBX who left his family'
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:22 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
Wow. Fuckthatguy. I think I'd be sticking around my house for his visitation weekends too from now on.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Mousse242 ( member #6330) posted at 11:14 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
Screen shots of FB. Now.
That should be the last time he has your 8-yr old at your home if skank is there.
Make sure you talk to your atty about overnights with the opposite sex unless they are related.
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