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Divorce/Separation :
Contempt of court

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 curiouswiz (original poster member #34405) posted at 12:46 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

If WH ingnores all court orders and atty. has filed contempt what happens next? Will he be arrested?

I know he can't respond in an intelligent way. He's simply that messed up. And angry.

What happens next?

God bless us, everyone.

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la433 ( member #38835) posted at 1:14 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

Court orders for what?

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 curiouswiz (original poster member #34405) posted at 1:39 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

For anything at all. He refuses to cooperate on financial affidavits. He came to court without representation and proceeded to tell the court to do what they want because it doesn't matter anyway. He simply refused to give the court anything but contempt during the hearing and has not responded to one order.

I have to wake early in the morning many days of the month waiting for direct deposits to our joint account so that I can transfer enough to pay bills on the properties we own, the water and sewer bills, the electric, the taxes, anything that needs to be paid is not on his agenda. He spends every dime on shitlicker. I've stopped being a floor mat finally but damn this is tiring.

He honestly thinks it's going to go away I guess. I wondered after court if he was hoping court would arrest him then and there for his attitude and out of line remarks. The court was so kind to him I couldn't believe it but I guess they could tell he's a hot mess.

I just wonder if they will arrest him for not responding. We just got an insurance bill for nearly $8,000.00 on our Boston property and the account is already overdrawn although $5,000.00 was deposited yesterday, I left $500.00 for him to live on until the end of next week! He sent me the bills in cooperation? I paid what I could. What a mess.

Rambling...still, again.

God bless us, everyone.

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roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 1:49 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

If it is civil contempt, then no, he won't be arrested. He'll be served and then have to show up for a hearing at the appointed time.

BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
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D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
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 curiouswiz (original poster member #34405) posted at 1:57 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

Is divorce court civil? I'm so damn confused. He's also stated that he won't show up for any further court dates. He has been to the first hearing for emergency support and told me then he's done.

God bless us, everyone.

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 curiouswiz (original poster member #34405) posted at 1:58 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

Ha! I laughed at civil divorce...sorry.

God bless us, everyone.

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013

At some point I would imagine that he would be issued a bench warrent for not appearing in court when ordered to. But I am not a lawyer, sooooooo

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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