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ICouldntFixIt ( member #15326) posted at 9:29 PM on Monday, October 15th, 2012
If it worked, this is me Saturday night.
"Don't settle for a spark...light a fire instead."
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:57 PM on Monday, October 15th, 2012
Icouldntfixit, I just love that pic.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
She-Ra ( member #36033) posted at 10:45 PM on Monday, October 15th, 2012
poof gone!
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Former story began here July 2012
We were mad-hatters. I was a WW first then a BS. Separated May 2017. 2 kids.
Met my new beginning May 2019 just discovered his EA Oct 2020 4 days after we bought a house
chloecat1 ( member #35585) posted at 2:15 AM on Tuesday, October 16th, 2012
Trying this out... My kittens

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Him:WH-51, Me:BS-47
DD-21 DS-18
Married 27 years, together 30
Divorced May 2013~FINALLY!
1st A: 19 yrs ago, but dday not until 7/12/08
2nd Dday- 10/3/11, separated since then.
3rd DDay- 8/10/12 Admitted to other ONS and PAs.
Suing WH for di
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:52 AM on Saturday, October 20th, 2012
DS19, DD9, DS11, DD21 and DS12:
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
lingerdog ( member #24459) posted at 3:58 AM on Monday, November 5th, 2012
Me and SO at the chocolate festival today.
ETA: It's a little blurry.
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What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:50 AM on Monday, November 5th, 2012
Chocolate festival in Awesomeville? Yes please!
SO is a QT, lingerdog!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
lingerdog ( member #24459) posted at 6:08 PM on Tuesday, November 6th, 2012
Chocolate fest was pretty sweet... i mentioned that I couldn't go to lunch with some people at church because I was taking SO to the fest. With the reaction of the women you would have thought i shouted free money, or free candy to a group of kids. Chocolate seems pretty popular with the ladies is what I'm saying lol. And thank you! I think she's pretty cute too.
What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 6:34 PM on Tuesday, November 6th, 2012
Well duh. Its chocolate.
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
lingerdog ( member #24459) posted at 10:56 PM on Tuesday, November 6th, 2012
What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:51 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Finally posting the pictures from our anniversary trip. The first one is the pic from when we were married at 19. Oh to look like that again.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:56 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Just finishing up saying what we had said to each other to exchange the rings.
The family
The rings

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Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Awwwwwww....so much happiness in your pictures TG
You guys look great!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
oh, so so lovely, Tired girl.
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
TG - you look great! Just as I pictured. I pictured HL as tall too! Great family. Thanks for sharing...
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
TG - you look great! Just as I pictured. I pictured HL as tall too! Great family. Thanks for sharing...
hardlessons ( member #35025) posted at 6:31 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
I gotta do something about my root beer belly!!
TG looks awesome as always!!!! Glad our boys were part of it, was a great time.
Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:44 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
What a beautiful family!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Amazing pics. Just love them.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 10:30 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Thank you everyone
We had an amazing weekend.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
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