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I know a BS whose H told her that he cheated because she wouldn't iron his shirts.

WTH!!!

A WS will say ANYTHING to avoid taking responsibility for his/her actions.

Stick to business and 180 him. You can't talk sensibly to someone behaving like am imbecile.

BTW, my H thinks some women look sexier with short hair.

I think he's right. If you feel good in your short hair cut, you will feel sexier and more self-confident.

Let him work on the property but that's it.

Don't talk to him. Don't even see him.

If you need to communicate with him do it through email.

There is no reason to be having conversations with him esp ones like the one you described here.

I'm not trying to be harsh, but the only thing you accomplish by doing this is hurting yourself.

You asked a question. He could have been kind and said...I like your hair. Or he could have said nothing. Instead he made a choice and he intentionally insulted you.

That says a lot about him. It also says a lot about how you feel about him. You still place a lot of weight in what he feels about you.

If you start breaking that bond with him you will start to feel much better.

NC NC NC NC NC.

(((hugs)))

It took me a while to not think about what xWH thought about my appearance, as I had valued it so much when we were togther. Forget about what he thinks, don't even go looking for validation from him cuz you won't get it. If YOU like your hair cut (or anything else for that matter) then THAT's what counts. HIs opinion is pointless.