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played-a-fool ( member #29476) posted at 2:51 PM on Thursday, September 16th, 2010
I lost nearly 40 pounds in the 7 mos after DDay. I was, and still am, an avid weight lifter so the weight loss was ok with me. I lost the weight mostly from my belly. I had been into power lifting and was eating massive amounts of food to increase my strength so when I lost the weight it uncovered mounds of new muscle that I couldn't see before. I actually have a six pack that I had never seen before. Over the last few weeks I have started to slowly gain a few pounds back but I'm gonna try to stay at this weight because I look better than I ever have. A funny little side effect is that my WW comments that other women are looking at me more. It's poetic justice if I've ever seen it. Her A caused this weight loss and my weight loss and greatly improved physique is causing her to be jealous and insecure. This might sound mean but I absolutely love it. The sad truth is that she was very young when she had the ONS but now she has gained some weight and doesnt have that body anymore. Now, 19 years after her ONS, I look better than I have in my life and she is terrified that I will have a revenge A. Reap it, you sowed it. LOL
BTW, I was 6'0 250lbs before DDay, now I'm 220lbs and lean. Maybe there is some justice after all.
Me - BH
Her - FWW
Trying to R
Trust is difficult to earn but so very easy to lose. It's a gift that should be treasured and guarded.
oncehappyred ( member #28941) posted at 3:23 PM on Thursday, September 16th, 2010
I lost 26 pounds in the first 3 months. I am down to the size I was when we got married. I was exercising alot and I need to get back to that. It helped with anger management.
I get tons of compliments on how I look now.
Nobody has things just as he would like them. The thing to do is to make a success with what material I have. It is a sheer waste of time and soulpower to imagine what I would do if things were different. They are not different.
Dr. Frank Crane
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