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simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 2:27 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2013
Yes he is, KB 
I agree with about my sister
You can't fix stupid
I just got of the phone with my mother. She's fine. She wasn't upset with me. She didn't want to talk yesterday because she was upset and embarrassed because she couldn't stand up on her own. I explained to her what I said and about what I had going on here and even if I didn't have anything in the oven, I'm still about 20 minutes away. She agreed with me. I also told her that I wasn't making light of her situation but that she was in a chair and she was safe, I added that it wasn't like she was hurt on the floor. I said that would have been different. She agreed with that as well. So she's fine with me and everything I had to say, it's just my sister... 
My son asked me this morning if he and his sister could spend the night of my sister's house. I just told him that after what happened yesterday (I didn't tell him what happened) to not expect anything from her again.
I feel bad for my son because he loves his aunt and uncle 
I wish my aunt was still here, she would give my sister a piece of her mind. That would be one of those conversations where you just sit back with a bag of popcorn and watch. 
[This message edited by simplydevastated at 8:27 AM, May 24th (Friday)]
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
KBeguile ( member #38348) posted at 3:32 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2013
I'm no aunt, but I've had an awesome rant or two in my day.
What's the number to the pet shop? 
Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 3:33 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2013
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 5:20 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2013
she didn't want to hear it.
In my family I have learned to recognize that shit like this means they want to be angry about something for whatever reason and zeroing in on the latest offense, however flimsy, is a way to keep that kettle boiling. If they don't want to hear it then it's because they want to stay exactly where they are.
eta:
Glad you got to work it out with your mom, sucks that your sister is feeding her bullshit.
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simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 6:54 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2013
Thanks, SG. You know what? My sister would be super pissed at me if I pulled what she did. But I guess it's perfectly all right for. her.
I'm glad my mom understood.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
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