deepriver (original poster new member #86741) posted at 7:20 AM on Wednesday, November 12th, 2025
My trusted husband of 20 years marriage has another love en sex partner for the last 5 years.I have found this out 2 weeks ago.I am broken, deeply sad, completely devastated…We have 3 children.I have kicked him out of the house , he is sleeping at his father. During the days he is at home while I am at work and he leaves to his work when I come home. In the weekend I try to avoid spending time with him. We did have 2 times a planned conversation as we need to communicate as a family.He is saying he wants to stay with me and the kids.My marriage for me it’s over.The issue is that he told me 5 yrs ago that he kissed that women, I was so upset and shocked backthrn but promised to never do it again. And now, after 5 years looks like they have explored everything together and it didn’t stopped by the kiss…crazy!!!!and infully trusted him. I don’t know how to go on…
