How do you still believe that some people are good people?
I honestly thought my spouse was kind, honest and caring. But he’s a liar and he was very cruel to me. I can’t unsee that about him, it’s not just the nastiness it’s really quite pathetic behaviour he displayed. Like a spiteful child rather than a grown adult.
He hid his behaviour well. So he could be up to anything still - I doubt I will ever trust anyone the way I trusted him again.
We are still together, I don’t see him the same way anymore.
I have made new friends. Put a lot of time each week into socialising online, in person etc. I talk to so many people. This forum is helpful as I can see other people who have been blindsided - so I presume they were honest in their relationships. I like myself and have focused on my values. But I don’t feel quite right.
Any assistance would be appreciated.
