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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
AMA! That is NOT what I pictured you looking like at all!!
Love all the new pics here.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 8:06 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
What did you picture me looking like???
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 8:21 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
I second NK, Amazonia. I didn't picture you looking that way at all.
Everyone's kids are so cute! dlmos, your DD has the same necklace as my DD. I will miss it when my DD leaves her frilly tutu, Hello Kitty phase.
Nice pics of the grown-ups as well! Maybe I'll post a picture of myself when I get enough nerve to do so. 
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 8:57 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
In my mind's eye, you had very long, dark hair and olive skin.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
My XH is half Asian, but had never been to Asia until he came to visit me...while I was living there for several years. We liked to joke that I'm more Asian than he is.
...but no, I'm totally white.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
lieshurt, how old is your son?! That looks terrifying!
Amazonia, he is 16.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:27 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Great pics everyone. I love this thread. No one has ever looked the way I envisioned them. 
But seeing everyone makes you all and your empathy and support so much more real. Thank you all
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BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 3:27 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Here is where my name comes from. When people ask how many tattoos I have, I have to answer in hours. I have over 60.
Right thigh - Sat through 7 straight hours and had to call it quits. Went back for 2 more hours
Left thigh - Next project are tattoos for DD4 and DD1
Left Shoulder
Back - Not a very flattering shot
Back - Close up of the top
And if you see me in clothes (don't worry...I try to cover up as much as possible so I don't scare little children), you'd never know
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:57 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
looooove your tattoos! and that they're all covered so easily! that's 自豪 on your lower back, isn't it? the good kind of pride?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 7:23 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Yep. Proud of my heritage. My mom is Chinese. Born in China. Had to flee to Taiwan during the communist take over. I've always identified with being Chinese. Though no one thinks I am! Usually it's some sort of Spanish, Eskimo, or Pacific Islander.
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:32 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
My gang
*POOF*
My current fav of DD7. She was so intent on whatever it was she was watching.
*POOF*
DS4 getting the honor of licking the icing spoon.
*POOF*
Our little Bobbie
*POOF*
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"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Issaquah ( member #34484) posted at 8:06 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Aubrie - You and your family are just beautiful!
Tatood China Doll - Love your beautiful tats - they certainly are a reflection of you!
Amazonia - I pictured you exactly like that - you're beautiful and love your glasses - so cute.
BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorced
dlmos ( member #36839) posted at 11:21 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Some nice looking people around these parts 
TCD - Your picks almost make me think we need a tattoo picture thread!
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:01 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Probably not my best picture...
This one is a few years old (my siblings and me), taken at my brother's wedding. I'm six months pregnant with Teslet...I'm the groucho on the right.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:15 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Tesla, you look like the marathoner you are I love the mask picture
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 2:05 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Poof
my new haircut and color!! I LOVE IT!!
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CharlieFoxtrot ( member #38010) posted at 2:41 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Okay, Amazonia, totally had you pegged for dark hair, I have no idea why!! TattooedChinaDoll, I love your tattoos, I agree about a tatt thread!!
Tesla, somehow in the mask with a cup o joe is exactly how I would've pictured you, it may be the grin or the sparkle in your eyes
I love this thread, it's great to put a smiling face to my SI friends!!
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:47 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Success is having people assume you're not a blonde
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"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:33 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Charlie--from now on-- whenever I go on a rant, you should picture me in a pink bathrobe, mask on, pounding away on the keyboard like the bat shit crazy lady I am 
And thanks Ama--glad I'm pulling off the marathon runner look
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
dlmos ( member #36839) posted at 3:48 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2013
Ama - Nothing dumb about blonds, one of the smartest medics I know is a blond.
And since TCD showed her's here is my one tattoo...need a few more I think now
eta: it's actually a 2 inch wide band but the top scrunches when I bend my elbow...
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BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
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