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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:41 PM on Wednesday, August 7th, 2013
Yay! Congrats, ItsaClimb!!! 
JustDesserts ( member #39665) posted at 2:04 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
This "A picture tells a thousand words" thread is poignant and happy and sad to view and read.
Our pictures now, in R, and as a family, are happy ones.
But I also know there was a lengthy time where any pixels which captured and replicated me, replicated a lying, cheating, broken and sad person. The outward appearance...like always...put together, cool, attractive. Yup, the world needs my surface to be just so. But the inner man...rather ugly.
It is lovely to see these images. They show strength, hope, character, and a big slice of the human condition...in the face of human fraility.
2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 51. Her: BW, 50. Married 20 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:18 PM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 9:26 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 9:40 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
OMG, look at her!
How are you LadyV? 
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
Really great. REALLY.
It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:51 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
OMG...LadyV she is beautiful!
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:56 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
She's absolutely beautiful.
Good to see you LadyV!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 10:05 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
Good to see everyone! Appreciate the welcome!
It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 10:11 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
So...how big is Lord V's gun?
She's gorgeous!
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 10:30 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
That makes me happy
(not the part about LordV's gun 
)
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:38 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013
She's beautiful.
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 1:51 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
Baby V isn't a baby anymore!!!!!!
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 5:28 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
UO, Hello!!
Far out - I can't believe how young you are. I see it in your tagline but I must not have registered it properly.
I always imagined you as a brunette with a bob ... kinda like my maths teacher who also used to give me massive brain benders.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 6:51 AM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013
So good to see everyone!
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
lost4now ( member #21634) posted at 3:19 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
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I don't know if I did this right. First attempt at posting a pic. This was me about two months ago.
BS - ME 43
WH 44
Married 20 years
DDay #1 12/28/07
DDay #2 9/18/08
DDay #3 12/28/08
Dday #4 11/18/10 (same OW)
Dday #5 8/22/12 (same OW)
2 beautiful daughters
"Love grows where it is nurtured and dies where it is not!"
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:25 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
Lost4now, that is a great pic....so pretty
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
hobbeskat ( member #38805) posted at 6:54 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2013
*poof*
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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:27 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2013
hobbeskat...
Great picture...you both look so hip and cool 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:44 AM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2013
JM and ds15 today on ds' birthday.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
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